What if I Mess Up?

Written by Darren Hewer

Losing in an Olympic event would be feel disappointing, to say the least. Losing due to a technicality, when you had the best time and were expected to win, would be even harder. Losing a gold medal because of a coach’s mistake? Devastating.

That was exactly what Netherlands speed skater Sven Kramer faced at the 2010 Winter Olympics. As Kramer skated in the 10,000m competition, his coach, Gerard Kemkers, mistakenly waved him toward the inside track instead of the outside track where the skater had been heading. The coach’s error led to Kramer being disqualified from the race, even though based on his time he placed first and would’ve won the gold medal.

People wondered whether Kramer would be able to forgive his coach. Kramer himself probably wondered if he would be able to forgive. And even if he could, would the rest of his country be able to forgive this public blunder of epic proportions? The chief sports editor for the Dutch newspaper The Telegraph

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commented that “This is a historic mistake. I think in Holland, over 50 years, we will still remember this mistake.” (Source: NPR)

We have all made mistakes in our own lives. While ours were not likely scrutinized by the world as Kemkers’ was, many of them seem just as meaningful to us, especially moral choices. From lapses in judgment to ignoring our own ethical standards in the misguided pursuit of some goal, the effects of a seemingly simple moral choice can end up haunting us for years.

The result is that many people are saddled with guilt. The proper way to deal with guilt is not denial; but how can we continue to have self-confidence in ourselves despite our mistakes and moral failures?

“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” 1 John 1:9

If you feel like you’ve really messed up, you may appreciate the apostle Peter’s situation. He claimed he would follow Jesus even to death, but eventually Peter abandoned Jesus when he denied him three times. If guilt is heavy on your heart today, read a short devotional about Peter and God’s forgiveness. The truth is that God forgave Peter, and entrusted him with great responsibility even after his very public failure.

If you have non-Christian friends who are struggling with guilt, you might want to point them to this article written for non-Christians which describes how Peter’s guilt and anxiety were assuaged.

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One Response to “What if I Mess Up?”

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Marianela Chi says:

March 13, 2010 at 7:09 am

i believe that this devotional is good for since i am going through some difficult times in my marriage