Being Rather Than Doing #1

Written by Gail Rodgers

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In this hurried life we live we put so much emphasis on what we do.

The demanding tasks and expected accomplishments become our focus. In the rush of it all we sometimes fail to notice the seeds of change within ourselves.

It is wise to stop and ask, “Am I growing…or eroding in who I am becoming?”

A wise woman grows in becoming trustworthy.

Being a trustworthy person is being someone worthy of confidence; someone who can be relied on. The very first indicator that this character trait is visible is in the area of our speech. Are we worthy of others’ confidences? Are we known for our encouraging words? Do we let our own burdens and concerns become an excuse to leave our tongue untamed?

A trustworthy woman pays attention to how she speaks. She chooses her words well, knowing she can speak words of life or death!

“Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing” (Proverbs 12:18).

To grow in trustworthiness, start with your speech! Pray this verse today and watch God grow this character trait in you!

Father in Heaven,
I want the people around me to feel safe about what might come out of my mouth. I desire to grow in being a trustworthy woman and I want to start right here with the words I say. Please nudge me by Your Holy Spirit when reckless words and gossip are on the tip of my tongue. Help me to be aware of how my words can heal or hurt those around me. Work in my heart and grow me in this area. I offer the words of my mouth to You today. Thank you that You are trustworthy to help me. May I grow in being one who can be relied on and worthy of confidence.  In Jesus’ name I pray, amen.

Questions: As you take a look at yourself, would you say that you are growing in your walk with God or are you becoming a negative person? What can one do to become a trustworthy woman?

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4 Responses to “Being Rather Than Doing #1”

  • Cathy says:

    It certainly is easy to be drawn into gossiping. Negativety feeds on negativety.

  • La says:

    I’m w/ Em on this one… I normally don’t struggle w/ this, however, I have sisters that are horrible about gossip. I call myself the “un-social” one in the family, b/c I find myself not commenting, or changing the subject half the time. I won’t say that I never say anything bad, however, I now can catch myself when I do… and I sleep much better now.

  • Shelley Anderson says:

    Dear heavenly Father.
    Thank you Lord for controlling my tongue in all areas of my life.
    Thank you that we can come to You when a situation arrises and ask for your guidance and let You speak for us in all areas of the tongue.
    I also ask that you will bless Gail in her life, family and ministry.
    In Jesus Mighty Name amen.

  • Em says:

    Thank you. Unfortunately, where gossip is so prevalent in teaching (or other fields, especially where there are a lot of women), sometimes it is challenging to stay out of the conversation. I normally didn’t struggle so much with this issue, but after beginning to work with teachers, it’s been a bit more challenging. I pray God continues to strengthen & protect me to guard myself, my tongue, habits, so that I will honor Him. I pray God helps us to remember that. God bless you! In Jesus’ Name, Amen!

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