Defining Moments: Out is not an Option!
Wednesday June 6, 2012
Everyone can look back at moments that have shaped the rest of their lives for good or bad. Relationships also have defining moments. A huge defining moment in my marriage was when I made up my mind that “Out is not an Option!” I would be faithful and committed to one woman for the rest of my life. That decision has shaped the outcome of many discouraging moments when I wanted to throw in the towel, quit or just give up. My decision was made! My energy could then be directed toward working through the discouragement and doubts to strengthen the relationship.
Problems have become building blocks to our relationship. My resolution that “Out is not an Option” has caused me to be focused on solutions!
Action: Decide today that "out is not an option". Determine that, as of today, there is no "out".
Resolve to work through the difficulties focused on solution and the future of your relationship.