Break-ups are brutal and it’s very tempting to think that if you could just get back together all the pain and hurt would go away. But it’s not that simple. You do not need him to be good enough, you are good enough all on your own. I do not know if you have a faith perspective or not, but I believe in God and God says that you are a person of worth and value, a woman of beauty and purpose. Your worth does not diminish even single drop just because a guy decides that he wants to end things. It may not feel like that is true, but it is. You are a whole person all on your own and this guy, no matter how amazing he might be, he is not the last man who is ever going to love you. He is not your only road to happiness.

I’d encourage you to spend some time focussing on taking care of yourself. Take a close look at how you talk about yourself, and how you describe yourself in your thoughts. Are you kind to you? Do you tell yourself that you matter or do you make yourself feel like a loser? You are NOT a loser. There’s a great list of all the things God says about you, you can read it here. Accept yourself. Any less than that and you’ll find yourself chasing after someone who is not chasing after you. You deserve to be truly loved by someone who always takes your call, someone who is always happy to see you. Don’t let someone else tell you who you are. He does not have that power. Let God tell you who you are. I think you’ll like what he has to say.