“Fragmented”, she replied when I asked her how she was feeling. She had bought into the common philosophy that being busy is somehow a virtue.
I’ve been there too. Most of us have. We buy into the notion that we must “be more”, “do more” and have more”. We find ourselves fragmented and stretched like a piece of worn out elastic.
Oh, there are seasons of life where busyness does prevail and we run. Yet when it becomes a constant way of life, and we run weary, we need to take action. Simplicity can be a choice.
I’ve learned a few things that help make Christmas simple for me. Let me share them…maybe they will appeal to you too…
Use scents

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Remember how good a spring rain smells or a wood fire in the fireplace? Scents bring back memories. Use them to create the festive atmosphere in your home. They will instantly greet those who come through your door and will trigger memories in years to come.
Lights
Little white lights can go up early and stay long past Christmas. They have a charm of their own. I string some through a wreath or around a window. With dimmed lights and the fragrance of spices in the air the feeling of Christmas will pleasantly surprise you.
Candlelight is great too for creating atmosphere in a simple and elegant way. Reduce your stress, decorations and cost and let the lighting create the magic!
Simple food
Food is a big part of the holiday fun as well as a big part of the budget. Consciously keep it simple.
Create simple traditions
Make traditions for your children or grandchildren to remember.
Once you start thinking “simplicity” you will come up with all kinds of ideas of your own. Give yourself permission to keep it simple this Christmas and enjoy the season in a fresh way.
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