Comments on: Suicide seemed like a good option

By: Claire Colvin

Fri, 12 Aug 2011 18:34:42 +0000

Andrew,

That makes more sense. I think it’s important not to minimize what a person is going though when they are dealing with thoughts of suicide. I do not know your story, but I know that suicide is part of my story. There was a time in my life when I truly believed that taking my life was the only thing I could do to save myself. At that time I did not need to hear that I needed to trust God more, I did not need to be reminded that suicide is permanent – believe me I was very aware of that. I think that often people on the outside of the issue look at people who are suicidal and think that they are giving in, or too weak to fight, or “just depressed”, as if it were something they could get over if they could just deal with it better. That is so far from the truth. I wanted to make sure that if someone came to this article when they were dealing with the question of suicide on a very personal level that they would know that we take the matter very seriously.

By: Andrew

Andrew — Fri, 12 Aug 2011 14:32:13 +0000

Claire, I think you misinterpreted my post. I didn’t mean God will wipe them all away here on earth. Of course, were all going to go through troubles in our lives and until Jesus comes again we will continue to face many obstacles. What I meant to say was that one day when we finally join God he’ll wipe away the tears and what not. Sorry for wording things wrong.

By: Doris

Thu, 11 Aug 2011 16:27:54 +0000

Shawn, I definitely agree with you that suicide shouldn’t be treated as a taboo subject. In fact exactly the opposite should be true so that when someone is feeling that desperate and that there is no hope left in their life,they can talk to someone about it.

Having said that I would disagree with you that it is a human right to end your own suffering. Only God gives life and I would say that it is his right and his alone to determine when life should end. Having watched and lived through the pain and agony that suicide causes in those that are left behind I cannot see that as a viable option.

By: Shawn

Shawn — Tue, 09 Aug 2011 22:05:58 +0000

Suicide shouldn’t be treated as a taboo subject. Those that seriously contemplate it should be shown the respect and dignity of any other human being. It is a human right to have the right to end your own suffering. It shouldn’t be promoted however but it should be respected and means made available to those that don’t have any other viable options to end their pain.

By: cfast

Mon, 30 May 2011 17:26:22 +0000

Lisa,

I am sorry to hear about your situation. I understand how painful life can be and how depression can be so overwhelming that you just want to end everything. But I also know that no matter how low I got, there were people whose lives I would have devastated if I took my life. God does love you and cherishes your life. You mentioned that he is the last person you think of and believe me, it was that way for me too. But I have found that he is the only person who really cares about me, unconditionally, all the time, no matter what is plaguing my life. Due to your cry for help, I am putting you in contact with a mentor for Power to Change. Our mentoring program is free and confidential and someone is ready to listen to you. I am sorry that you have lived in such difficulty. Please know that I am sincerely praying for you.

By: Lisa

Lisa — Mon, 30 May 2011 16:40:30 +0000

I’ve had a great life. My disability and I have disappointed all family members and friends due our lack of participation. We’re attached to eachother for this life, like siamese twins that don’t get along. We can’t go and play beach-party, camping, hiking, dancing, rowing a boat, walking on the shore…. due to pain and physical limitations. We’re having a hard time opening a can of food, peeling a potato, washing a cup, standing to cook, pouring water, bathing, dressing and sleeping. Pain lives here with us. It’s constant. My doctor is afraid of her physician-position so I cannot get medical pot THRU her, she says she will not keep a patient who goes to another doctor to get medical pot permission, and the village I live in has a doctor’s policy to not let a patient choose a new doctor even if current doctor is a total moron.
I was, once, a track-champion, an honor-roll student, a workaholic and a joy to have around. Now I am homocidal and suicidal in a very big way. I’m thinking of drowning the painful bitch next to me so I might live a real life…. but we’re attached…. so I have to drown, too. I am a victim, and I continue to be victimized… so I don’t see any value in staying here. No one knows me. No one will miss me, and I am not useful. When I think of stepping out with my disability, the very last thing on my mind is Jesus and God.

By: Claire Colvin

Wed, 27 Apr 2011 18:46:40 +0000

Andrew, While I do most fervently believe that God changes everything I think it’s important not to suggest that the problems that lead people to consider suicide are so easily swept away. YES God makes all the difference, but God is not a fairy godmother with a wand. Even with God in your life there can be huge obstacles – if a loved one is lost they are still gone once God is your life. His presence makes the unbearable bearable but life can still hurt even for the most devoted Christian. Jesus himself spoke of this in John 16:33 ” In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” Sometimes God’s answer is to be with in our suffering not to completely take it away.

By: Andrew

Andrew — Wed, 27 Apr 2011 05:50:52 +0000

Suicide: A permanent solution to a temporary problem. Think about It guys. Trust in God and he will wipe away your tears, fears, pain, and discomfort.

By: Darren Hewer

Fri, 12 Nov 2010 17:25:23 +0000

Vinoth, I’ve forwarded your request to a mentor, you should hear from them soon!

By: Vinoth

Vinoth — Fri, 12 Nov 2010 05:49:23 +0000

Hi,
I too have been suffering from suicidal thought for many years. I need someone who could listen to me patiently, understand me, and guide me in christian path. Please mail me at [email address removed by admin]