How Much Sin Will God Forgive?

Written by John Benza

First of all, we all sin. Sin is very real in our lives. We do many things that aren’t pleasing to God.

Acknowledging that you sin is a huge step. A lot of people sin and don’t think there’s anything wrong with it while some people finally come to see how destructive sin can be. But God does not want us to live with guilt. He wants us to know and fully experience His forgiveness.

God does not simply overlook our sin and say, “You’re forgiven.” God sees our sin but is ready to forgive us because Jesus fully took OUR sin on himself and paid for our sin by his death on the cross. Our sin is serious and it cost Jesus incredible suffering. But from the moment we believe in Christ and make him a part of our lives, his forgiveness is ours. We can’t ever make up for our own sin or suffer enough for it—nor does God want us to. In the Bible, it says, “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:8)

But what happens when we struggle in an area and keep on sinning? Does God get so weary forgiving us that we, at some point, reach our limit?

Jesus was asked by the disciples how many times they needed to forgive someone. Jesus said, “I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven” (Matthew 18:22).

It’s unlikely that we all can keep track of whether we forgive a particular individual 490 times, so you see Jesus’ point. We always forgive, because God always forgives us. God does not have a limit. He died for every one of your sins—those you’ve committed and those you will commit—past, present, and future. You need to begin looking at your sin the way God looks at it. The Bible says, “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” (1John 1:9) “As far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions from us.” (Psalm 103:12)

If you’ve asked God to forgive you and to come into your life—you are forgiven! Thank him for his forgiveness and begin to rejoice in your secure relationship with him. He is able to change areas of your life for the best. Remember, God is able to forgive all sin.


392 Responses to “How Much Sin Will God Forgive?”

  • Trish Hicks Trish Hicks says:

    I can agree that it is a hard concept to realize.But God has forgiven everyone of our sins for this entire planet,of all that have lived,are living and will live.Ephesians 1:7 KJV
    In whom we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of his grace; Colossians 1:14 KJV
    In whom we have redemption through his blood, even the forgiveness of sins:
    What we as sinners have to and must do is repent if we sin and we know its a sin.Or if we willfully sin.We must repent and we don’t have to but everyone does say please Father forgive me,when they all have been forgiven.Whenever in question we always need to turn to God’s word and promises.He God will always come through on his promises.

  • vierocka says:

    Confused… Run as fast as you can. He is still married. You are playing with fire and you will get burn. It’s a sin. Bible calls it a sin. He loves you? That’s not love because he is married even for his daughter. Men can talk many things but what they do its mostly true- they show love by action. And how do you know he is not sleeping with his wife? Because he said that? Don’t be deceived.Are you there in their house every night? She is still his wife and he can sleep with her. Run away from that man and you with not be hurt!

  • Ann says:

    Sin is sin to call it anything else is evil. Even if it feels good, even if it seems like love & I think you know this in your heart. I would ask god to reveal the things in my life I need to change & ask him to speak to me through scripture. Get in church, join a small group. In the bible jesus was always putting people together/ building teams bc we are stronger together w other Christians & we help hold each other accountable. I also recommend reading Not a Fan by Kyle Idleman. It’s a great book to read that spells things out. It’s helped me a lot. One line fm his book says, ” We are saved by Gods grace when we believe in jesus & put our faith in him, but biblical belief is more than something we confess w our mouths; it’s something we confess with our lives.” Anything you want more then god is an idol. When we choose god over everything else we want he blesses us. I’m certain he has a plan for your life (maybe it’s even helping other women in similar situations). Whatever gods plan is for your life, you are missing out on it when you choose this man.

  • Kim says:


    We’re not so different. So I speak from a very non judgmental position.

    Sister, your confusion does not come from a misunderstanding of the word of God. It comes from your feelings, which are deceiving. You’ve stated that you know what you are doing is wrong Biblically, but you and your partner feel there are extenuating circumstances. You’re hoping to reconcile your faith and current desires, which unfortunately can’t be done. You know this at an intellectual level, but again your heart is deceiving you.

    I guarantee the Holy Spirit is convicting you to leave that relationship. But it feels so good and so right that it’s hard for you to believe God wouldn’t want this for you. As wonderful and perfect as it may seem now, it’s all smoke and mirrors. It is a demonic trap!!!! This is a manipulating and beguiling, lying spirit straight from hell. Resist, turn and run as quick as you can.

    I became a follower of Jesus at a young age, but had fallen away from the Lord for a time while doing my own thing. As a married woman, I had a huge flirtation problem. I didn’t see anything wrong with it. As long as I wasn’t ‘sleeping with them’, I justified my actions in my own mind. I knew the scriptures where Jesus said if you look upon a woman (in my case a man) and lust after them, you have committed adultery already in your heart. But for some reason, I felt I needed these other relationships for happiness and fulfillment.

    I had been taught that once you were ‘saved’, you were sealed until the day of redemption – Biblical for sure. So I felt secure enough in my salvation to dabble. Big mistake! Sin rarely happens in a vacuum. It usually begins in the mind. If the thought is not taken into captivity or resisted, it will be entertained, fantasized about, then acted on. One day I ended up taking the big plunge. At first I was shocked and devastated by my actions because I was a Christian. But eventually I became desensitized and actively and flagrantly participated with little remorse. This is called a reprobate mind. The relationship eventually ended (surprise surprise) and took a piece of my soul with it.

    You can’t travel two paths at one time. You are either on the broad road to destruction or the narrow road that leads to life. Do not be deceived.

    I pray Lord that you will clear up all areas of confusion, speak truth into her heart and mind, convict her, help her to feel your unconditional love for her, help her to repent and submit to the sanctification process. I command the spirit of witchcraft and perversion to leave her in the name of Jesus and the Spirit of Truth to abide in her.

  • Tom Tom says:

    While there is a great deal the Bible has to say about such things, let me start by keeping it simple. Romans 14:23 says, “Whatever is not of faith is sin.” Considering your “name” is “Confused,” would you say you have strong faith that this relationship is God’s will? If not, what does that make it?

  • Confused says:

    he is a married man.. but he does not sleep in the same room as his wife anymore. they are keeping the marriage only because they have a daughter who is sick =(

  • Tom Tom says:

    Is this a same-sex relationship?

  • Jay says:

    God will take you back. He never wanted You to leave. He’s just been praying that you will turn around.
    But you have to make that choice. You have to say “NO” devil. And if you can’t say “NO” devil, then just
    say “Jesus, help me”. And that’s where you start.

    Father God, in the name of Jesus and by the power of the Holy Sprit, give me strength to say “NO, devil”. Let those readers who seek You find you as You have promised. Give them strength to say “NO devil”. And say “Yes, LORD!”

  • Chris Chris says:

    confused…sorry to hear of your struggles…without knowing why you say your marriage to this person wouldnt please God although he is also a Christian, we know that Gods will should be done in our lives in all respects above our own. of course, if this person is already married, you cannot commit adultery and be doing Gods will since that is a grievous sin to christ. the issue we must all face day by day is giving our hearts continually to christ. being a Christian isnt a past tense experience but rather a daily one whereby we continually seek to please and do Gods will. only those who do Gods will are really true christians. we must see that any emotional attachments to people outside of jesus will must be broken by faith and fasting so that we can begin once more to be in the center of Gods plan for our lives. i pray jesus would give you the grace to now be able to stop this illicit relationship if indeed it is and let this person do christs will as you do as well. eternity is too long for us to jeopardize our souls in this world. in jesus name amen!

  • Confused says:

    I have been a believer and a follower of Christ since I was a little girl. I have had ups and downs in my relationship with God but I have never stopped loving Him or knowing He’s there for me.

    However, in recent years I have come to love someone I am not allowed to. This relationship would displease God and even my family.
    But both me and my partner are truly in love, unconditionally, and we help each other to grow and become better persons. Like me, my partner is also a believer in Christ. But how do we reconcile our love for each other and our love for God? Can we continue to love each other and ask to be accepted?

  • Lee says:

    I struggle with certain areas of my life, and with thinking that there is a limit to God’s desire to forgive me. Unfortunately, I think some of this fear is actually what drives some of the behaviour that I’d rather not fall into. I’ve had a long road with this–with trying (and failing, as we all do) to be “good.” I feel like God does so much for me, and like I should pursue Him more, and then I feel relatively secure in His love for a bit, and get distracted and end up disgusted with myself for not paying him more mind and allegiance. I know that he is gracious and loving in a way that I’m sure I can’t at all comprehend, and that His promises are true. I think I am struggling to really understand, with the “eyes of my heart,” that it is His desire to forgive me, no matter how many times I screw up, and no matter how stupidly I screw up. I know it would also be His desire to see me grow, as well. I am hunching that I need to grow in my understanding of His grace and love and mercy, and that finding greater freedom in Him would flow from that. The main thing I struggle with, I guess, is the idea that He wants to forgive me, any and every time I would come to Him. If anyone is willing to pray for me, that I would be able to really understand that, I would greatly appreciate it. It would be so nice to feel that in my heart, rather than just having to struggle to trust it with my will for now. Thanks, and peace.

  • Tom Tom says:

    Thanks for your note Yehudit and the kind words. Let’s all keep on doing what 1 Thessalonians 5:11 tells us to do: “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.” Remember that the victories you win in Christ, Yehudit, can and should be passed on to others so that we can all grow to maturity! May God richly bless you!

  • Yehudit says:


    Thank you so very very very much for your reply!! Everything you said is exactly right, I know, and I really
    needed to hear that. You are right, our Heavenly Father is a loving Father who wants to forgive, its just been so
    hard for me, struggling with this lately. Your advice is well worth taking, Cant thank you enough, now I know.
    I feel so much better having this “backing” and know what I can do now in this sticky situation.

  • Joe says:

    So many out there waking in the darkness afraid that their souls have went beyond the reach of Christ. He never tires and we all have the same stories, challenges and sin. My Brothers and Sisters in Christ and in sin. The news has never changed, only we have in the conduct of our lives. Feel his heart, open yours, and love him that his Father knows your name. I don’t want to compare sin with any of you, but if sin were a qualification for the NFL, I would be in the Super Bowl every year. It’s simple you know, love him as you love a child of innocence. We all started that way until we entered this world. As for atheists, I would certainly argue their is a God of sin, therefore our loving God of forgiveness is alive and well. He gave us all Free Will ! Make your choices and give your soul an eternity of Peace and love. God Bless all of you.

    In his Precious name Jesus,

  • Tom Tom says:

    Join the crowd—of humans that is! While the Lord is gracious and has given us the gift of eternal life through repentance and faith in Jesus Christ, he doesn’t take away our sin nature at salvation. But don’t despair Yehudit—let Jesus pick you back up, dust you off, and set you back on your feet for the next time.
    I’ve always had a tendency to write things in letters and emails that I later regretted. One of the problems with writing these things is that once the “send” button has been pushed, or the letter goes into the mail, you can’t get it back. I’ve found two ways to help prevent making these mistakes over and over again:

    1)Always wait at least 24 hours before sending them. Then re-read them several times, putting yourself in the place of the recipient. How would they take it? Does it convey the proper message? Is it being said out of love or out of my own pride and selfishness?
    2)Try to address whatever it is you want said in person or via telephone (no, not texting!) Much of what’s conveyed in conversation is through tone of voice. Letters and emails cannot present the tone you wish to convey. Also, just as you should wait 24 hours to write, wait 24 hours to talk. It’s amazing how many things begin to pale in importance when you’ve had time to “settle down.”

    And then Yehudit, read what the apostle Paul wrote in Romans 7—“For we know that the Law is spiritual, but I am of flesh, sold into bondage to sin. For what I am doing, I do not understand; for I am not practicing what I would like to do, but I am doing the very thing I hate. But if I do the very thing I do not want to do, I agree with the Law, confessing that the Law is good. So now, no longer am I the one doing it, but sin which dwells in me. For I know that nothing good dwells in me, that is, in my flesh; for the willing is present in me, but the doing of the good is not. For the good that I want, I do not do, but I practice the very evil that I do not want. But if I am doing the very thing I do not want, I am no longer the one doing it, but sin which dwells in me. I find then the principle that evil is present in me, the one who wants to do good. For I joyfully concur with the law of God in the inner man, 23 but I see a different law in the members of my body, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin which is in my members. Wretched man that I am! Who will set me free from the body of this death? Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, on the one hand I myself with my mind am serving the law of God, but on the other, with my flesh the law of sin.”

    So quit beating yourself up. That’s what Satan wants you to do. Admit to the Lord that you’ve blown it again, but that you truly want to change by letting him work in you to do so. Ask for his forgiveness. Also, consider giving the person you wrote a phone call. Maybe you need to apologize and ask for forgiveness. If you know you “did wrong,” admit to them that it wasn’t a Christ-like thing to do. Ask the Lord to help you with this and he will. In the meantime, learn from the mistake and grow in the Lord!

  • Shelley Shelley says:

    Der Heavenly Father.
    Lord I lift up my friend to You at this time, to help her or him with this guilty feeling that is inside them, that You will heal them, in Jesus name amen

  • Yehudit says:

    I have totally gone to God and accepted what He did for all of us, thru the sacrifice of His Only Begotten Son,
    but sometimes I still make stupid mistakes. I just made another one last week. I didn’t stop to think very well or as long as I should have when writing a letter. I said the truth in it, but it could’ve been worded a lot differently so that it would come across more showing the Love Of Christ, instead of my frustrations. Now here I sit, guilty as all out. Im afraid I have
    offended another person, and maybe even was a stumbling block. I have suffered w/guilt now for days on end.
    I feel as if I am the most horrible person on earth. I don’t know what to do. I feel like a major pile of doodoo.
    I hate feeling this way.

  • Chris Chris says:

    bret…we must remember that sin first and foremost is against God himself and that is why jesus died, to free us from it. ps 51.4. part of pleasing jesus is pleasing our parents, not in absolute sense in a general sense otherwise we would be their slaves and God doesnt want that either. if you seek to please christ and in that seek to please your mother and obey her, then your life will be successful. i would recommend in general not seperating pleasing jesus from pleasing your mother based on col 3 and ephes 6. as you please one, you will please the other! jesus bless you!

  • Bret says:

    Hello all,
    I have a question.
    I was kicked off of my basketball team by my Mom for doing something that she didn’t like, and then my mom saw that I had good grades, so she decided to let me play on the team. However I still continue to do the thing that my Mom does not like. I want to continue to keep playing basketball, but I feel a little guilty that I am still playing basketball team. Will God forgive me of this, even if I continue to play on the team?

  • Barbara Alpert Barbara Alpert says:

    Father God, I pray on behalf of your son, Gary, today. I ask that You would place a hedge of protection around his heart and mind as he seeks to come closer to You and grow in your ways. May You renew Gary’s mind and heart so he can think, speak, and behave in a manner that brings glory, honor and praise to Your name. May every thought that is not of You, in the name of Jesus, flee from Gary’s mind. Father, I ask that You fill Your Spirit and guide him into the wonderful plans You have for him. In Jesus’ name, Amen

  • Gary says:

    This article was very comforting and inspiring and just what I needed to be reminded of. I’ve had a spiritual battle my whole life. I have believed in God and Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior since my Mom and Dad taught me about Them when I was a child. But while I believed, a strayed way away from God as an adult. Failing to seek out His plan for me and sinning repeatedly and various different ways.

    My dad died when I was 7 and my older sister ten years after my Dad, both unexpectedly. I was just me and my Mom left. I left the church at 17 in anger at God for taking my Dad and sister.

    Since then my whole adult life has been plagued with anxiety, depression, insecurity, anger, lust, gluttony, self-centeredness, drunkenness and sadness just name a few. While I believed in God and Jesus and even prayed, I never sought to make Them the very center of my life and for that I have greatly suffered. I recognize I brought it on myself. When you neglect God and do not welcome Him into your life there is a huge void that is felt. I spent all those years hating myself as well. I saw myself as dopey, ugly, unappealing and unlovable.

    Then a few months ago I got a wake up call. My mother got an illness that she is still recovering from. I am 43. I have never been married and I have no children. I am not close to anyone in my family. While I do have a small circle of friends, they have their own lives. I was faced with the real prospect that I very well could be all alone if my mom did not recover. I was scared. In my hour of desperation I turned to the only one I knew I could…God.

    But I also knew I had turned my back on Him for so many years. I knew I had engaged in repeated sin without remorse all my adult life. I knew I was a rotten person. Yet I turned to God and pledged to seek a new life with Him at the center of. I have found a wonderful little church that has welcomed me with open arms. I made all the proper steps to make God the center of my life.

    But I admit I continue to struggle. Even more so now than ever. It’s because the enemy has had his grip on me for so many years and now he sees I am trying to go to where I belong, with God. So now the fight is on as he tries to pull back into my old ways, and all to often he still wins. I continue to be plagued with all the same issues as before and anxiety, anger, depression, etc still has a strong hold on my life.

    But I have something now I didn’t have before. Hope. Hope in God and Jesus Christ and that They will free from all this sin and despair. I heard a pastor talking about this very thing going on with me. He called it spiritual warfare. The enemy wants to keep me with him and God wants me to come home to Him. While God is certainly more powerful then the devil, I am not. That’s why I need God now more than ever to win this war going on in me. I can’t win it alone.

    The enemy keeps tempting me and pulling me into all my bad behaviors. Then I seek out God and ask for his forgiveness through the blood shed by His Son Jesus Christ. But then after confessing my sins and asking His forgiveness, the enemy tells me I’ve sinned too much and God has given up on me. Then I have to seek out the Bible to remind myself God’s forgiveness is never ending as long as we accept Jesus as our savior, confess our sins and truly reject that behavior as being acceptable. God knows I am going screw up time and again, especially while we fight this spiritual battle.

    Romans chapter 7 is excellent for anyone concerned about their struggle with sin. In it Paul talks about that although he has wholeheartedly given his life to Jesus, he still has a sinful nature that is stronger then he. But he reminds us the price for that sin was paid for by Jesus at Calvary. For me, it’s one of the most inspiring chapters in the Bible because it reminds me how human and weak we all are and how strong God is and how much love He has for any of us who accept Him into our lives.

    Thank you for the article, because I was feeling pretty down on myself because over the passed week, I have fallen a lot and was becoming concerned that maybe my heart was hard and really wasn’t giving myself to God. I was feeling maybe I really was an evil person and was beyond forgiveness. This article reminded me it wasn’t so. The enemy wanted me to believe that. But Gods truth and love trumps anything the enemy says to me. So thank you!

    May I just ask for any ones prayers for myself that I grow closer to God everyday and receive His strength as I fight this spiritual war? I appreciate all the prayers I can get.

    Thank you and God bless!

  • Chris Chris says:

    cuban…the bible teaches restoration when we have stolen from people. luke 19. since you say you have stolen from your father, you need to not only confess it to him but also restore what you have taken and jesus will be with you as you do!

  • Cuban says:

    What if you stole from your farther do you confess your sin to him or just to God?

  • Shelley Shelley says:

    thank you for your responses, in Jesus name Amen

  • Ignacio says:

    If we believe that God is God, then we should believe that He is almighty and there is no sin greater than Him. Is our lack of faith that impede us to reconnect with God and let Him be God and our friend and bless us with all His grace and Love. We rather keep substituting Him by other things, from the object of sin to the object of healing that is not God Himself. Only God can provide the peace and restoration that we are seeking. The thief on the cross has nothing good to offer, no good deeds but was the first to enter the paradise. Why because he put his heart in the right place, search the eyes of His Lord and Saver and remembered the paradise. Only when we seek God as greater that everything else and the paradise as greater than any other desirable thin g then we will be transformed. We need to desire God and His friendship more than anything else. Then we will drop everything that doesn’t belong to God majesty and purity. Is matter of choice. As a scene of the Gospel, of the possesed youngsters, the demons rather than be with Jesus they requested a miracle to the Son of God, whom they recognized as God, and capable of doing such miracle, but still they rather go to the low life of the pigs. Jesus said do as you want. God doesn’t interfere with our desires and choices. He created us free. That is our supreme dignity and He wants us to choose Him as the supreme Gift and not to be forced to anything. Is not enough to have faith but to desire God more than sin. Is matter of choice. Sadly many time we chose the wrong that we don’t want as Saint Paul says. Adam and Eve choose to steal the forbidden fruit that having their daily communion with God. We still are suffering the consequences.

  • Ann says:

    Steve, I was researching how many times can God forgive you for repeating the same sin & I stumbled upon this. Your job is my struggle with sin. I was introduced to porn at a very young age by a friend & her family. I am happily married with children & I thought when I accepted GOD sin would just stop. Sometimes I make it a month or two with out masturbation or thinking of images I’ve seen while making love to my husband. Porn has crippled me because I can’t enjoy sex with my husband the way God designed it to be enjoyed.There are always images in my mind, even when I try to shut them out. I’m sure many others struggle with this as well. God has put this on my heart to give up & it is a constant battle. It is my genuine feeling that if what you are involved in making has stirred feelings of lust in me & mental images (that I still struggle with years later) it must be doing the same thing to many others. God has put a lot of things on my heart to give up over the last 4 years & I’ve always listened & God has always blessed them. This struggle for me is the most difficult to overcome. If you feel God is showing you that you need to get out, then get out. If porn that someone created can cause me to struggle with lust for years, then there are others struggling too. I would be more afraid of God then not being able to provide my family with a certain lifestyle. If God has put it on your heart to give up, do it. He will honor you & he will provide in ways you would never expect & better then you could imagine.

    Mark 9:42 “If anyone causes one of these little ones–those who believe in me–to stumble, it would be better for them if a large millstone were hung around their neck and they were thrown into the sea.

  • Chris Chris says:

    keerthana….i encourage you to know as jesus said, all sin is forgiveable in his eyes. as you simply give your heart and life to christ and let him take charge, getting with his chrisian people, your life will begin to be transformed. you can learn more about knowing jesus as your personal lord and savior by clicking… or by clicking talk to a mentor above. i pray jesus peace would now come to you and that you would find the forgiveness you need in the one who paid for your forgiveness on the cross, jesus christ. amen!

  • keerthana says:

    i want god to forgive me for what i did i am dyeing with guilt please save me

  • Chris Chris says:

    anne…all of us have made mistakes in thoughts, words and deeds. you arent the first one to speak inappropriately to ones parents. you have asked for forgiveness, we all are commanded by jesus to forgive just as he has freely forgiven us. if your father is struggling to forgive you, then simply give him more time but dont condemn yourself for his inability at this moment to forgive you. time has a way of healing physically we know and god also uses time to heal spiritually as well. if for now the door is closed to visit, wait and call back in a week or so to see how the home atmosphere is at that time. we cant forcé storms to stop at our command necessarily, we have to let them run their course and terminate themselves. who wouldnt like instant healings physical or spiritual? yet life, most of the time, is a process of restoration, when needed…i pray you would rest in Gods faithfulness to you, to forgive and restore your life to him more and more and that your parents would also come into the freedom that christs forgiveness affords us in jesus name amen!

  • Ignacio says:

    Dear Ann: your parents need to hear what you just published here. Thye need to to learn aboiut your feelings and that you care. They will forgive you once you show remorse and true repentance and do something very nive form them, with no strings attached. Rejoice in God that is almighty and much biggre that that sin as well. The devil tricks our conciousness with guilt and try to make us believe that we have no forgiveness, that in reality God is not that greta, and won’t be able to forgive.
    Hunble yourself and express your pain for the pain aflicted and hug them and love them. For give= to come with a nive present, anticipate the celebration. Give, give give. Your judgement needs to cease and love since love has the ability to erase a multitude of sins. Love all the way to your parents, evcery body ion your way, the holy Spirit will teach you what you need to learn in order to heal you from your impaired judgement. Compation, empathy are the keys of the fall of humanity and rise. Seek the eyes of Jesus cruxuified, as the thief and suplicate him to let you in His kingdom.Talk to him and praise Him without cease. Make your breathing whisper the name of the Lord. I AM. care of you as the temple of the most high and great all others as temple of God.
    God bless!!!

  • Anne says:

    I have greatly sinned for i have been extremely rude to my parents.. my dad has refused to speak to me again and i could see the obvious hurt in my parents eyes.. i love my parents very much.. but i shouldnt hv yelled at them especially when i questioned my dad’s ability to support the family.. it was my frustration that spoke.. i am drowning with guilt..

  • Chris Chris says:

    franklin…yes its true jesus does forgive without limit and yet at the same time we hear his calling to be perfect as our heavenly father in perfect. matt. 5.48. you might check into way of purity on a great course to help men in their challenges of today…i do pray for you that the holy spirit would fill you up to overflowing and that you and those you lead to christ will enjoy the dominion over sin that jesus has died to give us. amen!

  • franklin says:

    I read your article.Thanks for your insight in to the mind set of Jesus.I struggled in lifeeven after I accepted jesus as my saviour .Temptation is the weapon that satan uses to defeat a child of god and drags him away from the grace of god.I agree with you that god does not look at our sin but for gives us like he told his disciples to forgive 7×70 a day.need your prayers that I should come out of this mental setup that got in to my head thateven if I sin He will not leave me.because God is love.but is it my responsibility to tryto come out of this attitude of sinning.
    continue your good work.God will bless you.

  • Michael Jantzen Michael Jantzen says:

    @Steve, how are you doing? So what ideas have you come up with so far for supporting your family outside of the industry. I image that your industry helps you earn a very good income and that it might be hard to find other employment that helps your family continue to live at that standard of living, especially if you are starting a new business. You may need to be willing to live with far less for a while. But I’m sure the peace and joy you’ll have will be much more than what you have right now. Have you considered using your media equipment and studio to serve another business sector? Take care.

  • Jeff says:

    THE ROAD IS NARROW that leads to life and FEW there be that find it. (mt 7:14) WE MUST NOT FORGET: “We know that no one who is born of God sins; but He who was born of God keeps him, and the evil one does not touch him. We know that we are of God, and that the whole world lies in the power of the evil one”. – 1 John 5:18

    Be encouraged! He wouldn’t have said it if it wasn’t possible and that is good news!

    But, we must not make any provision for the flesh (Romans 13:14).

    And, pray without ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18).

    So, we can be empowered by His HOLY Spirit to lead such a life of holiness, as He is Holy (1 Peter 1:16).

    For the average American this means a radical upheaval of their lives. MAJOR changes in schedule, how time is spent, friends, TV/Internet changes, etc, etc.

    It is why He said that to follow Him it’d cost us everything, and that is why we need to “pick up our cross(their version of the electric chair) and follow Him:

    “Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Whoever wants to be my DISCIPLE must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me.” – Matthew 16:24

    The very word “disciple” comes from the word “discipline”. We must discipline this flesh that seeks only to destroy us!

    And, live by the Spirit via abiding in prayer/seeking, worship/joy, and divine love.


    You CAN do it because you were made for the High Life!


  • Ignacio says:

    Dear Steve: I can relate to the fear and decisions you face. Recently, in my struggles, I could sense the demons instilling desperation and setting my heart in apathy to the love of God. The devil in his mockery continues to test my weakness. We are in a spiritual battle. Only when we surrender humbly to God we can succeed.
    I remember that Yeshua said to the apostles that a certain demons can be expelled only with much prayer and fasting, also that running away from what makes us sin.
    There is the story where Yeshua heals a Boy with a Demon
    …20And He said to them, “Because of the littleness of your faith; for truly I say to you, if you have faith the size of a mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move; and nothing will be impossible to you. 21″But this kind does not go out except by prayer and fasting.”

    The battle is about who is gaining our heart and deciding who will reign in it. Only by appreciation of the riches of God and paradise, living in communion with the saints and angels for eternity, in the immense Love of God, His Purity and Holiness, rejoicing in Him at all times will defeat the snares of the demons. The demons are not willing to give up their filthy ways as when they ask Yeshua to be let go the men that lived in tombs, and ask Yeshua to possess the swine.

    Matthew 8:30 29And they cried out, saying, “What business do we have with each other, Son of God? Have You come here to torment us before the time?” 30Now there was a herd of many swine feeding at a distance from them. 31The demons began to entreat Him, saying, “If You are going to cast us out, send us into the herd of swine.”…
    The demons did recognize the Son of God and ask for an extraordinary thing, a miracle. They show “faith” and declare He is God, as most of us do and feel satisfied with that alone. As the demons that were possessed by low desires and were used to a filthy life (the swine represent that low life), we still appeal to God to help us to keep our ungodly life (to go a live now in the swine bodies). Guess what was the result to that request? The swine run down the cliff and perish. When there is filthy and low life, fear and desperation we can recognize the activity of the devil winning ground in our hearts.
    When there is thankfulness, praise, chanting the miracles of our Lord, when we experience joy, peace and love and empathic feeling for the ones that suffer (spiritual danger)and a great desire for what is pure and Holy then we can recognize that God is winning our heart.
    Faith is not enough (the demons proclaim He was the Son of God). Even the favor of God in not enough for our salvation. He makes shine the sun upon good and evil as well. Yeshua granted the miracle allowing the demons to go to the swine.
    Is our ”choice” what makes the difference. As we made the wrong choice in paradise seeking our own way, giving credit to the deceiver, and a chance to our greed of becoming gods, no wonder humanity succeeded harvesting illness and death.
    Cain went further after killing his brother; he felt “deep sorrow” and went wondering by the land of nod. The common denominator between satan, Adam and Eve, Cain, and all sinners is that once the hearts are captured by their sinful desires there is no repentance, but excuses, lies, and no return, but run away from God.
    The hearts get cold, apathic and unable to sense and pursue the grace of God again. That wedge between men and God was represented by the veil that was in the temple in Jerusalem. That veil was broken just after the words of Yeshua granting access to Paradise to the repented thief on the cross, whom was able to see the goodness of God and request His mercy, acknowledge his sinful undeserving life, and praised the Lord.
    Exactly all the things that satan and all sinners don’t do. To repent means change direction toward home. Like the prodigal son was dealing with the swine away from home, ill and ugly, unholy and lost, he lift himself up and walk back to His father’s home, asking not to be treated as a son but as a servant. When we become servants of the King of the most High then we are in the right track.
    That track is Yeshua himself, the path of salvation. Sometimes we need another servant to pull us in because we walk as blind or drunk, and we need to be helping each other until we reach the safe destination. Meanwhile we are in treatment for our addictions and unholy desires, but granted a hostel (the church= people og good, the chosen ones)for our total recovery. Is the same Lord that comes to us as the Good Samaritan, the Good Shepard to rescue us form the dangers of the world and carry us from sure death in the cross to a total restoration in the resurrection. He is coming to pick up the bill again for whatever is missing for our full recovery.
    If you really love your family you would like for them to inherit the right perspective of the Truth that saves and grants eternal life in the Love of God. Switching from the business of promoting the devils filth to the business that promotes the Holy things will give you what you really desire and escape the trap of the counterfeiter of happiness, wealth and financial stability and so on.
    There is no way effectually and finally to hide sin, but forsaking it.
    Doing so a multitude of sins are erased as says James 5: 19My brethren, if any among you strays from the truth and one turns him back, 20let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will save his soul from death and will cover a multitude of sins.
    Join into the business of erasing a multitude of sins. Need a partner?
    God Bless you all.

    Proverbs 10:12
    Hatred stirs up conflict, but love covers over all wrongs.

    Proverbs 11:30
    The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life, and the one who is wise saves lives.

    Proverbs 17:9
    Whoever would foster love covers over an offense, but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends.

    Romans 11:14
    in the hope that I may somehow arouse my own people to envy and save some of them.

    1 Corinthians 1:21
    For since in the wisdom of God the world through its wisdom did not know him, God was pleased through the foolishness of what was preached to save those who believe.

    James 1:21
    Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent and humbly accept the word planted in you, which can save you.

    James 5:15
    And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up. If they have sinned, they will be forgiven.

    1 Peter 4:8
    Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.
    Matthew Henry’s Concise Commentary

    5:19,20 It is no mark of a wise or holy man, to boast of being free from error, or to refuse to acknowledge an error. And there is some doctrinal mistake at the bottom of every practical mistake. There is no one habitually bad, but upon some bad principle. This is conversion; to turn a sinner from the error of his ways, not merely from one party to another, or from one notion and way of thinking to another. There is no way effectually and finally to hide sin, but forsaking it. Many sins are hindered in the party converted; many also may be so in others whom he may influence. The salvation of one soul is of infinitely greater importance than preserving the lives of multitudes, or promoting the welfare of a whole people. Let us in our several stations keep these things in mind, sparing no pains in God’s service, and the event will prove that our labor is not in vain in the Lord. For six thousand years He has been multiplying pardons, and yet his free grace is not tired nor grown weary. Certainly Divine mercy is an ocean that is ever full and ever flowing. May the Lord give us a part in this abundant mercy, through the blood of Christ, and the sanctification of the Spirit.

  • Steve says:


    Thank you for your words and insight. You are right fear is driving a lot of my
    Feelings. The fear is however the fear of God which is the only fear that one should have correct ? Faith that he is in control of all things and he is the way to lead us salvation I believe this. So I am currently putting my thoughts into different efforts that would be more pleasing to the eyes of GOD and more righteous work. I also know that in the bible the CREATOR says that one must provide for himself on the sweat of his own brow because of the inevitable state of sin we are all in. So I do have faith that I will be delivered from my current profession. However I also know that the sweat of my brow will provide the food for which my family eats. I do not believe repentance is enough if I did I wouldn’t be on this board. I KNOW I must change my path but while I am and while GOD is working on me how can I jeopardize the lively hood of my family when their food will be provided again by the sweat of my brow? Faith delivers us and gives is eternal life and I am a believer . So I’m not looking for justification in what I do I’m just looking for insight on will GOD allow me to change and forgive my current state where I am. My site is on Autopilot at this point so I don’t have to be involved on the day to day runnings of my site. But a question I have is aren’t we all afraid ??? I mean if there was no fear of hell their wouldn’t their be no mention of it ? Are fear and faith not hand in hand ? FEAR GOD and believe in him all at the same time no ? Every piece of my soul desires to change deeper than just my words but actually in reality. I realize the bible says the penalty for sin is death which why no man or woman can escape death because we all sin. So I guess my question when it all comes down to it I know the answer . GOD will always forgive so long as I Believe but I must be a true believer and live by his word . I have sinned faltered and ended up in this industry but by Faith I know I will be delivered.

    Thank you dearly May GOD bless us ALL

  • Kym says:


    I am very blessed by your note. Even though my words may be very direct, just know that my heart is very soft towards you and your concerns. I do not stand in judgment of you at all.

    Your profession and a weakness for women are not the issue. It’s also not about how hard you are trying to live a holy life. The Bible says our efforts are futile. This is a faith issue. It boils down to who do you believe?

    You are saved by grace through faith. Grace is Holy Spirit convicting you. Conviction ignored leads to a reprobate mind. Conviction embraced leads to repentance. Repentance is a gift from God that enables us to escape from the devil’s snare of destruction. Repentance evokes more than confession of sin or remorse. It enables us to submit to the transforming power of the Holy Spirit that renews hearts and minds. It’s released by an act of your will.

    Your comments are primarily based on fear, which is the antithesis of faith. Fear is the belief that something bad is going to happen with no evidence; faith is believing something good is going to happen with no evidence.

    What does faith look like to you? It boils down to do you believe God’s Word or the lies of the enemy? As you stated – no one can answer your question because no one is walking in your shoes. But if you want the truth, which will set you free, search God’s word for the promises He gives that says you don’t have to worry about what you are going to wear or eat. The Father knows you need these things. If you seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, all of these other things will be added unto you.

    I should probably tell you that I run an anti-trafficking ministry. I am well aware of the enticements, deception, and destruction of porn. I am not a fan. God allowed me a glimpse of hell 2 years ago. The temporal pleasures of life and the things we think are so important now will very much pale in contrast to eternal damnation. Do not be deceived. Nothing in this life is worth it.

    So I pray for you right now in the name of our Lord, Yeshua that the lies of the enemy are completely stripped away and that only truth has access to your heart and mind. I pray for strength to leave the porn industry and for blessings to overflow as you place your faith in the truth of Yeshua’s sacrifice on the cross and glorious resurrection, pleading the blood for you and your precious family. I pray that you will experience dunamis power over every area of your life. May you receive a revelation of the Father’s heart and immense love for you today. I bind the spirit of error, bondage, fear, and perversion and release the Spirit of love, power, sound mind, truth, holiness, righteousness, purity, liberty. Amen.

    Bless you my brother. These comments are completely free and there’s plenty more where they came from.

  • Permabond says:

    When the woman who was caught in adultery was brought to Jesus, what did He do? First of all, He told all of those men standing around her with rocks getting ready to stone her to death that if there was anyone there who had never sinned, feel free to cast the first stone. As they all dropped their stones and walked away, He went over to the woman and asked her where her accusers were. When she told him there were no accusers left, He said something very profound, “Neither do I accuse you. Go and sin no more.” If anyone had the right to accuse her, it was the perfect Son of God. But that’s not why He came. He came to share the Father’s heart with His creation. God is love. He is holy, and there is a penalty for sin, which is death, but Jesus came to save us.

  • Steve says:

    I grew up in Catholic School but am Episcopal by my baptism I honestly struggle sometimes, not with the Fact that the Son of Man actually lived and did righteous works and provided a way for us to model our lives after but the fact that we direct a lot of praise and gratitude his way instead of directly to the CREATOR GOD and those facts I have always struggled. I pray daily for wisdom and the right path and as we all no everyone is a born sinner I have made tremendous strides to correct some wrongs of my past and try to Live according to the word of GOD to the best of my ability. My profession however is I feel my biggest Obstacle as woman always have been. I remember once my sister going to a psychic (and yes i know that is against GOD completely I have never been and will never go) and she said women will be my downfall now looking at my life I have 3 daughters a home cars etc… but all supported by the profits of the adult industry and the studio I run. I wish there was a way to maybe even sell my business and turn away but in the mean time what am i to do ? I know this is a question for GOD and not a man but just looking for some insight on the damage continuing to run this Business will have on my eternal life. I do not take pride in this work nor am i interested in making this my lifes work by no means but the financial aspect now has me neck deep and this is something that took 5 years to build. How do i begin to approach this.

  • Michael Jantzen Michael Jantzen says:

    Hello Steve. I admire you’re desire to get out of the industry and support your family by doing something you can be proud of. It’s always a little scary to leave behind stability and venture into the unknown. I believe God would totally honor your decision to no longer support the porn industry. Can you tell me a bit about your spiritual journey? What do you believe about Jesus (Yeshua)? Take care.

  • Steve says:

    I own an adult film company it supports myself and my family financially though I am actively trying to find a solution to running this type of business how do I remove myself from it without completely destroying the stability of my family and also turning to Yeshua ? This is the battle im faced with

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