A Joyful and Attractive Woman
Nowadays, women often need to play many different roles. In the office, she is that talented manager who keeps the ball rolling. At home, she is that obedient and understanding wife, a homemaker who can cook and keep the house in order, a loving mother and a role model for the kids, a fair judge to resolve conflicts in the family. And if living with the in-laws, a daughter-in-law who always listens and obey…to avoid being labeled with a terrible nickname. Facing this kind of pressure and going through the same routines on a daily basis, one may be tempted to jump the tracks and experience something completely new.
The Complexity of Women’s Roles
It is not easy to live a life of women these days. One must play multiple and oftentimes conflicting roles. For instance, you have to be that wise manager who lays out the blueprint and delegate the tasks to the subordinates. Sometimes you must make the critical decisions. And sometimes that means you may have to go at it in a meeting with your male coworkers. But the minute you get back home, you have to become that caring and thoughtful homemaker, an obedient wife and a loving mother. Everyday you must put one hat on in the office but wear an entirely different one at home. Unfortunately, sometimes it becomes easy to continue wearing the office hat back home. For example, when things are going your way in the office, you may carry that executive attitude back home. For one thing your husband probably wouldn’t like it. And for your kids, they wouldn’t know what to expect because it all depends on how your day went in the office. I believe most women in the world want to be loved and respected. But our daily lives are filled with dilemma because none of us are perfect. We have all the intentions to do the right things, yet sometimes we are at the mercy of our own actions. This is the time when we need a hand from God, giving us wisdom to be freed.
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Women’s Fatigue Spirit
Having a fatigue spirit is women’s number one enemy. What’s worse, very few women can detect the severity of this syndrome. It will rob you away happiness and energy. A fatigue spirit doesn’t mean you are physically exhausted. Rather, it is an accumulation of emotional exhaustion over time. According to study, 4 out of 5 women have this type of syndrome. Some symptoms for this condition include seeing future as hopeless, unable to concentrate when working or talking, headache, feeling miserable or lonely, anxiety, fear, jealousy, etc. These symptoms can be especially evident during women’s menstrual cycle. So it is imperative to have plenty of rest and arrange some leisure activities at this time.
Most career women’s fatigue spirit comes from two sources: Not being appreciated and life just being too “plain vanilla”. Thus having some sparks in life and being appreciated are critical preventive measures. Usually the husband is the most suitable candidate for the job, to encourage and giving appreciation for everything the wife has done. Regrettably, very few husbands did their share. Therefore, when other men fill that void, it may very well put the marriage in jeopardy.
“Joyful and attractive woman spirit” is not limited to career women per se. Homemakers can experience the same thing from leading a boring life, not being appreciated and feeling the lack of accomplishment. Give yourself opportunities to learn new things, have more buddies who you can share your personal issues with, and find the meaning of your life are all excellent ways to prevent the problem. Remember, God created each woman with His unique master plan. Whether you are single or a newlywed, having young or grown children, it doesn’t matter. Every woman should be an joyful and attractive woman, enjoy God’s peace each and every day.
- Tips to cure the fatigue spirit:Go out with your good buddies: Get a babysitter for a day. You can go mountain climbing or sightseeing, maybe go shopping and have a fancy feast. You’ll realize your family will survive the day without you just fine.
Composition: Writing can go deeper than your voice. Put your thoughts and experiences in writing. And if you like, try submitting your work to publishers and share your joy and feelings with the readers. Maybe it will not only help yourself, but also help the readers. - Appreciate music or learn to play an instrument: It doesn’t matter which type of music or instrument. You’ll find that they are fun to listen and even more fun to sing or play it. If you have some spare time, try taking a music class from a community college, or take a class to learn your favorite instrument. You’ll discover life is not boring after all.
- Exercise regularly: If you don’t want to age faster than you should, or having no one recognizing you in your high school reunion, then you must exercise regularly. You can exercise with your husband or friend. Maybe go to a fitness center, do some tai-chi, aerobics, swimming, etc. Anyway, if you want to be healthy, the first thing you have to do is exercise, exercise, and exercise. What you do will affect your weight and appearance. Whatever you choose to do or not to do, you are the one ultimately responsible for your health and life span.
- Spend a quiet morning alone: Maybe go to a library and checkout some travel literature or videos with beautiful photos. Then take them to a coffee shop by the lakeside. Enjoy them with a cup of coffee and a gorgeous view of the lake.
- Attend and be involved in church and fellowship: Maybe you never went to a church before, or perhaps you stopped going a long time ago because of some reason. Try to find a church nearby that’s right for you. Then make some time to attend their gatherings. Maybe you’ll get a big surprise.
The God of Peace is only one prayer away. If you want the confident expectation of His strength and wisdom in your today and His help and hope for your tomorrow, you need only ask. Just tell Him…
Dear God,
I have gone my own way in life and have put my hope in so many things that have disappointed me. Forgive me and come into my life today. Show me how to live in the confident expectation of how You can impact my life, my character and my circumstances. I place my hope in You right now and ask You to make Yourself known to me in my life right where I walk. I thank you. Amen.
“May the God of Peace fill you with all joy and peace, as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” The Bible: Romans 15:13
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