Comments on: How safe is sex without a condom?

By: Doris

Mon, 13 Jun 2011 17:17:06 +0000

Tom, the reality is that you are very lucky at this point that she hasn’t gotten pregnant since it is possible to get pregnant without penetration because of the motility of sperm. Tom and Rob, unprotected sex is never safe sex, and not only can it lead to unwanted pregnancy, but also to the spread of HIV, AIDS and all manner of STD’s. As the author says so well in the article above, ‘The only way to prevent pregnancy (and sexually transmitted diseases such as AIDS) is not to have sex. My married friend, who has seven children, never intended to get pregnant. She relied on calculating the safe days. For the most part she did pretty well-she only miscalculated seven times in fifteen years.’

niyati, the only truly safe sex is no sex. I know I sound like a broken record but I have seen too many people’s lives in ruins because they have equated their soul’s craving for intimacy to a need for sexual intimacy with a person. They are not the same but in fact it is substituting a cheap imitation for the real thing.

By: niyati

niyati — Sat, 11 Jun 2011 18:16:22 +0000

hey i am just 17 years old and i have sex with my boyfriend by using condom but still m worried, so tell me is this safe for me or not????

By: Rob

Rob — Sat, 11 Jun 2011 14:15:17 +0000

Hey, I had sex with my gf and it was her first time.. it was 5 days before her period. and the dy of her period she said she had it but after when she went home she said it was a pink liquid and it only lasted for 2 days.. So we kept on having sex and sometimes we had unprotected sex and this month she missed her period.. we took a pregnancy test and it said negative. What do u think is happening? She lost her virginity like a month ago

By: Tom

Tom — Fri, 10 Jun 2011 13:36:32 +0000

Hey, I’ve been sexually active with my partner without a condom for over a year now… I’ve pulled out every time and made sure that I never came inside of her (she is not on birth control…) are we just lucky that she’s not pregnant yet?

By: cfast

Tue, 07 Jun 2011 15:19:44 +0000

Sam, you should go to the doctor and get the proper tests done – they will tell you if you have any sexually transmitted diseases. Secondly, take the advice in this article for the future.

By: sam

sam — Tue, 07 Jun 2011 04:50:27 +0000

i had sex with many girls that also without condoms…. i m afraid of HIV – AIDS.. please reply

By: Bernard

Mon, 06 Jun 2011 01:43:58 +0000

My wife and I have this incredible testimony that we never had sex before marriage with anyone and that is the safest and most satisfying. I am not ashamed of this and I give God all the glory. We will celebrate our 23rd anniversary and that is a proof you don’t have to get “to know each other” which really means having sex before marriage. So be safe and abstain. Be blessed!

By: dgman

dgman — Fri, 03 Jun 2011 00:18:23 +0000

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By: Doris

Mon, 30 May 2011 19:13:14 +0000

preety, thank you for taking the time to visit our website and post your questions. Both condoms and birth control pills can be effective in preventing unwanted pregnancies if taken correctly and according to directions. However the pill does NOT protect you from HIV, AIDS, or STD’s so that is something to take into consideration. Condoms are more effective for prevention of those but they aren’t 100% effective either. Only abstinence is 100 % proven for that.

By: Mishti

Mishti — Sun, 29 May 2011 06:20:44 +0000

Luk preety dnt take pills ever it will realy bad efects on ur health