Comments on: Dynamic Sex: Unlocking the Secret to Love

By: Jamie

Mon, 22 Aug 2011 22:20:23 +0000

You make a great point Anita and I would encourage anyone who is looking for more information about dealing with the destructiveness of pornography use our Power To Change search engine at the top of this page and search for the many different articles we have that talk about pornography. Also, talk with one of our mentors who will be able to direct you to other resources that can help those who feel trapped by pornography. You can find a Mentor Request Form at http://powertochange.com/discover/talk-to-a-mentor

By: Anita Heard Phillips

Anita Heard Phillips — Sat, 20 Aug 2011 06:51:20 +0000

I thoroughly enjoyed the article. However, there are hundreds, maybe millions of men and more recently,women who are addicted to internet pornography and self gradification. This is a topic that is seldom spoken of and there is little literature to be found on how to rebuild trust on the part if the victemized spouse once the marriage has been violated. (whether literally-physically or by mutual fantasys with self gradification) There are clubs on line complete with graphic pictures for any kinky activy or fetish that exists all set up as dating sites. The numbers on these sites are staggering. Their often called cyber sex,phone sex, cell-sex, and eventually relationsips move out to the coffee shop or sports bar and eventually to the hotel.This is breaking up Marriages on a scale that is frightning and was not mentioned in the article. It is believed this multi Billion dollar industry will continue to grow and will provide what ever the public is willing to pay for. Our churches are filled with Christian Men who sneak down in the night to the computer and peruse the pornagraphy sites. The need help. They ask God for help but the shame, secrecy and embarassment keep them from sharing with even their closest friend. (Certainly most don’t feel they can tell their wife} We need to bring this addiction out of the closet and get these people some help. Many are good christian men caught in Satans trap by vivid pictures that re-circut his mind.
No wife feels she can compete with this. Her self esteem plumets when she finds the man she loves is talking intimately, on line or phone, to an internet female friend, meeting him for coffee, lunch and eventually a full blown affair may take place. I beg of you if your are one of these souls, seek help. There are well trained Christian Psychlogists who can help you stop, and hopefully help you save your marriage.

By: Gertrude

Gertrude — Fri, 29 Apr 2011 04:46:01 +0000

Great article. Wonderful insight into something that churches in my country don’t dare speak about. Blessings from Papua New Guinea.

By: mugabi

mugabi — Wed, 29 Sep 2010 11:50:56 +0000

What a wonderful article.God bless you.

By: Patricia

Patricia — Fri, 31 Oct 2008 19:29:11 +0000

Concise and up to the point. I am recommending this article to my friends.