Comments on: Can He Trust You with his Feelings?

By: Rasheil

Tue, 22 May 2012 05:35:29 +0000

GD – pardon me, I just realized I stated “wife,” whereas you said “spouse.” Sorry, did not mean to presume :/

By: Rasheil

Tue, 22 May 2012 02:53:50 +0000

Hi GD -

I can hear your heart, even through your brief words. I think it’s awesome that you know the value and importance of trust, and that you understand the cost of trying to recover it. I pray that your relationship with your wife will grow in God’s grace and that you both will be able to love one another through God’s eyes. I don’t know much about your situation, but when His children strive to see one another through His eyes, that is when grace can cover a multitude of weaknesses, tough situations. I find that when I try to pursue the efforts of forgiving someone, I get frustrated, but when I strive to just see others through God’s eyes, things like forgiveness come naturally. I’m not sure if that speaks to your situation, but I thought I’d share it to let you know that you’re not alone in struggles like this.

I encourage you to reach out to a mentor here – http://powertochange.com/discover/talk-to-a-mentor/ It is very helpful to be able to share more and have someone alongside you encouraging through this process, because growth always involves a process, not just an event.

Bless you and may God help you through your situation,
Rasheil

By: GD

GD — Wed, 16 May 2012 13:54:36 +0000

Trust! You never know how essential it is until when it is broken.And rebuilding it is as difficult as climbing Mt. Everest. God help me. I want to be the safe place for my spouse.

By: Alfred

Wed, 11 Apr 2012 18:27:58 +0000

What a blessing this write-up is to me! I have never had the “feelings” of a man explained so clearly and this beautifully. Claire has said it very well indeed. Yes, Judith, when God comes first then the love to our spouse will be deeper, better, and more long-lasting.. My wife of 49 years said that we can think of “the love triangle” with God on the tip and each of us at one bottom corner; and the close we come to Him, the closer we’ll be to each other.
I read this article several times, feeling the depth of what it takes to have a couple share openly who they are, and expressing their feelings to one another..There is very much here that men as well as women need to take to heart. The selfish person will find it difficult to listen and to feel with the other, but with maturity comes the ability to meet the needs of others. May we go forward from here, being sensitive to our spouse’s feelings and affirming his / her strengths. Blessings, Alfred.

By: Judith

Judith — Sat, 07 Apr 2012 13:01:20 +0000

Really nice what do you said about trust, I believe we need to be honest with us first; and then with others many girls who doesn’t put their believe in God ended up to putting their faith in the human, that is a big mistake because we are human but if you put your faith in God he is faithful enough to please you all the time, but what happed with the humanity because we have an empty( this place is empty to be full with the Holly Spirit) space in our heart we put our lovers, family, friends and etc, to our trust even our selves . We should love our partners as friends we no need to expect they be perfect or powerful they are not God, because they are humans, we misunderstand the real purpose in life when God give us a partner, because your partner has to be the person who you can grown in power to build your spirituality ointment in Jesus, the problem start when we decided to tie our selves with an unfaithful partner I mean not Christian as you are. We need to understand that we need to grown in faith, because de evil wants to have us as a babies all the time but we need the real power in Jesus.
Many women complaint about theirs partners, but they need to be close to Jesus and then let him to be the holy love of their love.
How you can put in a first place and make the most important person in your life to a human? _ Should be God. He will never and ever fail to us. Let the Holly Spirit to let you free about partnership slavery, sometimes we are slave In our mind and heart for some sick relationship.
I would like to invited you to hear Joseph Prince ministries and Dr. Cindy Trimm in you tube, God bless you.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7vFK3499qA&feature=relmfu
Pastor prince