http://powertochange.com Sun, 12 Feb 2012 06:28:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://powertochange.com/experience/sex-love/mourning/comment-page-1/#comment-73067 Roland Tue, 29 Jun 2010 22:02:33 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9331#comment-73067 I'm going through an horrendous divorce myself. We are officially divorced, but i miss my ex wife everyday. Not a day goes by, when i think about her. Today is our anniversary, our 15th. I get the legal papers tommorrow for the selling our home, we both grew to love. I have tried contacting her via text, but she never replies. She has a bondage master as a partner, and with all the upset involved, our lives are forever changed, and i know i have lost her. i dont know how i am going to "move on". My friends say i must forget her, but i just find it so difficult. I have tried so hard in finding on various dating sites, a new partner, but for me personally, it all seems a joke, and i am living a false life, trying to put on a brave face with everybody, but inside i feel so numb and cut up. How does anybody get through this nightmare? I dont even "know" who i am now, and my feelings are just not right. I nearly every night, for her return, or at least an inroad to reconciliation, but on the odd occasion i have met her, i simply freeze up inside, it is a "freezing out" how i feel. If she broke the ice, it would unhinge my heart to some extent, and warm over much of the deep hurt. She sees no wrong doing whatsover, in her behaviour. Please pray for us and our 14 year old daughter, it is a painful emotional stalemate that just rolls on, month after month. Yours Sincerely, Roland Barkans I’m going through an horrendous divorce myself. We are officially divorced, but i miss my ex wife everyday. Not a day goes by, when i think about her. Today is our anniversary, our 15th. I get the legal papers tommorrow for the selling our home, we both grew to love. I have tried contacting her via text, but she never replies. She has a bondage master as a partner, and with all the upset involved, our lives are forever changed, and i know i have lost her.
i dont know how i am going to “move on”. My friends say i must forget her, but i just find it so difficult. I have tried so hard in finding on various dating sites, a new partner, but for me personally, it all seems a joke, and i am living a false life, trying to put on a brave face with everybody, but inside i feel so numb and cut up.
How does anybody get through this nightmare? I dont even “know” who i am now, and my feelings are just not right. I nearly every night, for her return, or at least an inroad to reconciliation, but on the odd occasion i have met her, i simply freeze up inside, it is a “freezing out” how i feel. If she broke the ice, it would unhinge my heart to some extent, and warm over much of the deep hurt. She sees no wrong doing whatsover, in her behaviour.
Please pray for us and our 14 year old daughter, it is a painful emotional stalemate that just rolls on, month after month.
Yours Sincerely,
Roland Barkans

]]> http://powertochange.com/experience/sex-love/mourning/comment-page-1/#comment-71410 Jill Sun, 30 May 2010 20:05:04 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9331#comment-71410 I just read Joann McDonald and it helped me so much to read her article and your website. It gives me strength to go on as I too is going through a divorce and I miss everything about our marriage. I can only admire Ms McDonald as she had children to look out for as well as I do have children but they are grown-ups. Thanks Joann I just read Joann McDonald and it helped me so much to read her article and your website. It gives me strength to go on as I too is going through a divorce and I miss everything about our marriage. I can only admire Ms McDonald as she had children to look out for as well as I do have children but they are grown-ups.
Thanks Joann

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