The feeling of being left for someone else is not a good feeling at all. ((Hugs!)) I pray that you know that decisions and behaviors that guys make are more about the guy and not so much about the woman they are not staying with. It’s great that you are trying to live a full life without him. The sooner you move on, the better it will be for you.

I want to share this scripture with you – Proverbs 4:23
NIV -
Above all else, guard your heart,
for everything you do flows from it.

The Message –
Keep vigilant watch over your heart;
that’s where life starts.

It’s important not to be hung up on the wrong guy if God has a different one for us. Guarding our hearts with the help of God’s Holy Spirit will help us to be available for whomever God has in store for us. I pray that you come closer to God’s heart through this situation, for His love will never leave nor forsake you. Have you come to accept Christ into your life? You can find out more about how you can have a personal relationship with God through Christ here – http://powertochange.com/discover/faith/discoverpurpose/

There’s so much room for growth in our relationship with God that prepares us for a future husband. Really, there is. Even when we think we have all our bases covered, sometimes God shows us what areas are preventing us from becoming the spouse we need to be for our future husband. Even without knowing what the future holds about having a future husband, I always find that my relationship with God is its own reward. Only He alone can truly satisfy. Living our life to the fullest is possible through Christ because it is He who came to give us Life abundantly (John 10:10).

I hope will seriously consider clicking on the link http://powertochange.com/discover/faith/discoverpurpose/ if you had not had the opportunity about how life chance change when we have Christ in it. Lord I lift up IBK to You, and I pray Lord that You provide her the guidance on how to guard her heart. You alone know her the best, out of anyone in this world. You know the number of hairs she has on her head and what she is about to speak before she opens her mouth. So I pray Lord that You draw her closer to You through this situation so that You may bless her with the desires of Her heart.

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Is there somewhere you can volunteer? Do you eat lunch at your desk work, is there a lunch room where you could eat with other people? Are you an approachable person? Is there something you could do to be more approachable? You could try wearing a brighter colour, or really thinking about smiling at people. If you think about what it is that you like to do, is there a place where there are other people who like that too? If you like animals, animal shelters often need people to walk dogs or help socialize kittens. Do you go to church, is there a group there that you could join?

It can be really scary to think about changing your life but there are often small things we can do that are a step toward change, a step, quite literally, in the right direction. Just the other I came across a quote that says, “Every day of our lives we are on the verge of making those slight changes that would make all the difference.” Mignon McLaughlin What is the slight change you can make today? Can you make it again tomorrow? It’s not easy, believe me I know it’s not easy, especially when you don’t have a partner by your side (I don’t have one either). But I have to live the life I build for myself, I GET to live the life I build for myself. And while we are not necessarily always at fault for our own loneliness, we do have a hand in it which is good news – great news even. It means that it is within our grasp to start to change it.