Comments on: Four Slippery Steps to Adultery http://powertochange.com Sun, 08 Nov 2009 09:35:59 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Anne http://powertochange.com/experience/sex-love/stepstoadultery/comment-page-1/#comment-30687 Anne Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:25:21 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9457#comment-30687 A pain strikes my spirit reading this article…I remember the same sin I committed 2 years ago. The wound I made to my husband's heart is what aching me the most. I’m forgiven, yes, but still am feeling the scar. God is merciful; he brings me back my husband whose acceptance of me makes me feel that God is awesomely pure and forgiving. Do not ever try to go beyond the boundaries of your marriage, you can be healed if you come back but the guilt in the memory is always there. Preserve the beauty of your relationship. A pain strikes my spirit reading this article…I remember the same sin I committed 2 years ago. The wound I made to my husband’s heart is what aching me the most. I’m forgiven, yes, but still am feeling the scar. God is merciful; he brings me back my husband whose acceptance of me makes me feel that God is awesomely pure and forgiving.

Do not ever try to go beyond the boundaries of your marriage, you can be healed if you come back but the guilt in the memory is always there. Preserve the beauty of your relationship.

]]> By: BECKY http://powertochange.com/experience/sex-love/stepstoadultery/comment-page-1/#comment-30542 BECKY Tue, 18 Nov 2008 01:46:51 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9457#comment-30542 COULD YOU PLEASE pray for my friend julie and her husband..they have been married for 23 years and have 4 children..he just admitted to having an affair and she is devestated but is leaning on the Lord...i just feel helpless and know that I can ask others to pray..thanks COULD YOU PLEASE pray for my friend julie and her husband..they have been married for 23 years and have 4 children..he just admitted to having an affair and she is devestated but is leaning on the Lord…i just feel helpless and know that I can ask others to pray..thanks

]]> By: Esther http://powertochange.com/experience/sex-love/stepstoadultery/comment-page-1/#comment-30500 Esther Mon, 17 Nov 2008 09:50:44 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9457#comment-30500 As I read this I weep internally as I am going through the result of an unguarded mind and heart by my spouse. i wish i could say something different; that the pain would go away or that all will go back to what it was before but... its not possible. I have come to see that the pain is forever and the kind of trust that was there at the beginning can never be retrieved. IF you are doing this, please stop... it will only ruin the good things you have. As I read this I weep internally as I am going through the result of an unguarded mind and heart by my spouse. i wish i could say something different; that the pain would go away or that all will go back to what it was before but… its not possible. I have come to see that the pain is forever and the kind of trust that was there at the beginning can never be retrieved. IF you are doing this, please stop… it will only ruin the good things you have.

]]> By: Jen http://powertochange.com/experience/sex-love/stepstoadultery/comment-page-1/#comment-30473 Jen Sun, 16 Nov 2008 23:57:26 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9457#comment-30473 If you're reading this and you are on the slippery slope, please, please turn back. My husband made all of these choices and although we are commited to staying in our marriage, we are scarred forever. I have been devastated, our marriage has been permanently altered, and trust is something that will be a long time coming. My husband has completely changed his behaviour, but is now desperately struggling with self-hate and guilt over his adultery. Please, if you are reading this ... choose your vows, choose your spouse, choose REAL love, not fantasy, and save yourself from so much grief. If you’re reading this and you are on the slippery slope, please, please turn back. My husband made all of these choices and although we are commited to staying in our marriage, we are scarred forever. I have been devastated, our marriage has been permanently altered, and trust is something that will be a long time coming. My husband has completely changed his behaviour, but is now desperately struggling with self-hate and guilt over his adultery. Please, if you are reading this … choose your vows, choose your spouse, choose REAL love, not fantasy, and save yourself from so much grief.

]]> By: VIRGINIA CHAMBERS http://powertochange.com/experience/sex-love/stepstoadultery/comment-page-1/#comment-30400 VIRGINIA CHAMBERS Sat, 15 Nov 2008 20:49:07 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9457#comment-30400 my dil did this several times and her and my son have been seperated over 16 monthes.i love her and it has been so hard on the family. my dil did this several times and her and my son have been seperated over 16 monthes.i love her and it has been so hard on the family.

]]> By: Slippery Steps to Adultery | My Journal http://powertochange.com/experience/sex-love/stepstoadultery/comment-page-1/#comment-30376 Slippery Steps to Adultery | My Journal Sat, 15 Nov 2008 12:48:44 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9457#comment-30376 [...] to share them to all of you…God bless you all and may the God give you wisdom as you read this…SLIPPERY STEPS TO ADULTERY…prevention is better than [...] [...] to share them to all of you…God bless you all and may the God give you wisdom as you read this…SLIPPERY STEPS TO ADULTERY…prevention is better than [...]

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