Comments on: Four Slippery Steps to Adultery http://powertochange.com Sun, 12 Feb 2012 16:50:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: <span class='mentorBadge' title='Bernard is an official Power to Change mentor.' >Bernard</span> http://powertochange.com/experience/sex-love/stepstoadultery/comment-page-1/#comment-353337 Bernard Thu, 13 Oct 2011 05:31:59 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9457#comment-353337 For all of you out there struggling with guilt and pain, there is forgiveness and healing with God and Jesus Christ died for each of you. Even though God hates the sin, He loves the sinner which we are by nature but God made provision for us. We are all incline to sin. Rest in God and arise for your deliverance and quit the fight because from now on God will fight for you. Your responsibility is to protect yourself in prayer and by meditating on his word, the Bible. Just receive Christ in your heart and long for God with every fiber of your being because that is how He longs for you. He will judge everyone at the end but right now He wants to forgive everyone who comes to Him with a willing heart. Come to Him while there is still time. There are no condition to His love like people have when they love you. He loves you still and it does not matter if you sin or not....He still loves you the same forever and that is a long time. For all of you out there struggling with guilt and pain, there is forgiveness and healing with God and Jesus Christ died for each of you. Even though God hates the sin, He loves the sinner which we are by nature but God made provision for us. We are all incline to sin. Rest in God and arise for your deliverance and quit the fight because from now on God will fight for you. Your responsibility is to protect yourself in prayer and by meditating on his word, the Bible. Just receive Christ in your heart and long for God with every fiber of your being because that is how He longs for you. He will judge everyone at the end but right now He wants to forgive everyone who comes to Him with a willing heart. Come to Him while there is still time. There are no condition to His love like people have when they love you. He loves you still and it does not matter if you sin or not….He still loves you the same forever and that is a long time.

]]> By: Jamie http://powertochange.com/experience/sex-love/stepstoadultery/comment-page-1/#comment-338508 Jamie Sat, 08 Oct 2011 04:56:33 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9457#comment-338508 Thank you for your testomeny. If only i would had read this a few years back. I could of seen myself. I didn't do the physical adultery but according to the bible i fell into adultery. The pain and guilt is so hard to bear. And your relationship will never, never be the same. Run to GOD and hold on tight. If all else fails remember that GOD is worth fighting for! your Soul is worth the fight. Thank you for your testomeny. If only i would had read this a few years back. I could of seen myself. I didn’t do the physical adultery but according to the bible i fell into adultery. The pain and guilt is so hard to bear. And your relationship will never, never be the same. Run to GOD and hold on tight. If all else fails remember that GOD is worth fighting for! your Soul is worth the fight.

]]> By: CM http://powertochange.com/experience/sex-love/stepstoadultery/comment-page-1/#comment-111652 CM Sat, 09 Apr 2011 19:18:16 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9457#comment-111652 I too devasted my husband of 30 yrs and my children and family and church by this terrible sin. Please know that nothing is good or right outside of God's will. The consequences of sin even when you are forgiven..the guilt and the shame is never ending and the pain of what you put your loved ones through is almost unbearable. If you have done this please pray for God to lead you back not only to repentence but to restitution. I too devasted my husband of 30 yrs and my children and family and church by this terrible sin. Please know that nothing is good or right outside of God’s will. The consequences of sin even when you are forgiven..the guilt and the shame is never ending and the pain of what you put your loved ones through is almost unbearable. If you have done this please pray for God to lead you back not only to repentence but to restitution.

]]> By: Anne http://powertochange.com/experience/sex-love/stepstoadultery/comment-page-1/#comment-30687 Anne Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:25:21 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9457#comment-30687 A pain strikes my spirit reading this article…I remember the same sin I committed 2 years ago. The wound I made to my husband's heart is what aching me the most. I’m forgiven, yes, but still am feeling the scar. God is merciful; he brings me back my husband whose acceptance of me makes me feel that God is awesomely pure and forgiving. Do not ever try to go beyond the boundaries of your marriage, you can be healed if you come back but the guilt in the memory is always there. Preserve the beauty of your relationship. A pain strikes my spirit reading this article…I remember the same sin I committed 2 years ago. The wound I made to my husband’s heart is what aching me the most. I’m forgiven, yes, but still am feeling the scar. God is merciful; he brings me back my husband whose acceptance of me makes me feel that God is awesomely pure and forgiving.

Do not ever try to go beyond the boundaries of your marriage, you can be healed if you come back but the guilt in the memory is always there. Preserve the beauty of your relationship.

]]> By: BECKY http://powertochange.com/experience/sex-love/stepstoadultery/comment-page-1/#comment-30542 BECKY Tue, 18 Nov 2008 01:46:51 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9457#comment-30542 COULD YOU PLEASE pray for my friend julie and her husband..they have been married for 23 years and have 4 children..he just admitted to having an affair and she is devestated but is leaning on the Lord...i just feel helpless and know that I can ask others to pray..thanks COULD YOU PLEASE pray for my friend julie and her husband..they have been married for 23 years and have 4 children..he just admitted to having an affair and she is devestated but is leaning on the Lord…i just feel helpless and know that I can ask others to pray..thanks

]]> By: Esther http://powertochange.com/experience/sex-love/stepstoadultery/comment-page-1/#comment-30500 Esther Mon, 17 Nov 2008 09:50:44 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9457#comment-30500 As I read this I weep internally as I am going through the result of an unguarded mind and heart by my spouse. i wish i could say something different; that the pain would go away or that all will go back to what it was before but... its not possible. I have come to see that the pain is forever and the kind of trust that was there at the beginning can never be retrieved. IF you are doing this, please stop... it will only ruin the good things you have. As I read this I weep internally as I am going through the result of an unguarded mind and heart by my spouse. i wish i could say something different; that the pain would go away or that all will go back to what it was before but… its not possible. I have come to see that the pain is forever and the kind of trust that was there at the beginning can never be retrieved. IF you are doing this, please stop… it will only ruin the good things you have.

]]> By: Jen http://powertochange.com/experience/sex-love/stepstoadultery/comment-page-1/#comment-30473 Jen Sun, 16 Nov 2008 23:57:26 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9457#comment-30473 If you're reading this and you are on the slippery slope, please, please turn back. My husband made all of these choices and although we are commited to staying in our marriage, we are scarred forever. I have been devastated, our marriage has been permanently altered, and trust is something that will be a long time coming. My husband has completely changed his behaviour, but is now desperately struggling with self-hate and guilt over his adultery. Please, if you are reading this ... choose your vows, choose your spouse, choose REAL love, not fantasy, and save yourself from so much grief. If you’re reading this and you are on the slippery slope, please, please turn back. My husband made all of these choices and although we are commited to staying in our marriage, we are scarred forever. I have been devastated, our marriage has been permanently altered, and trust is something that will be a long time coming. My husband has completely changed his behaviour, but is now desperately struggling with self-hate and guilt over his adultery. Please, if you are reading this … choose your vows, choose your spouse, choose REAL love, not fantasy, and save yourself from so much grief.

]]> By: VIRGINIA CHAMBERS http://powertochange.com/experience/sex-love/stepstoadultery/comment-page-1/#comment-30400 VIRGINIA CHAMBERS Sat, 15 Nov 2008 20:49:07 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9457#comment-30400 my dil did this several times and her and my son have been seperated over 16 monthes.i love her and it has been so hard on the family. my dil did this several times and her and my son have been seperated over 16 monthes.i love her and it has been so hard on the family.

]]> By: Slippery Steps to Adultery | My Journal http://powertochange.com/experience/sex-love/stepstoadultery/comment-page-1/#comment-30376 Slippery Steps to Adultery | My Journal Sat, 15 Nov 2008 12:48:44 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9457#comment-30376 [...] to share them to all of you…God bless you all and may the God give you wisdom as you read this…SLIPPERY STEPS TO ADULTERY…prevention is better than [...] [...] to share them to all of you…God bless you all and may the God give you wisdom as you read this…SLIPPERY STEPS TO ADULTERY…prevention is better than [...]

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