6 Creative Ways to Develop Gratitude

Written by Jeanne Winters

With the busy lives most of us lead, expressions of thanksgiving to God may seldom occur outside of mealtime prayers. Words of praise find few places to surface as we scurry through our day. We manage to squeeze in time to ask God for something, but how often do we just say “thank you”?

The Bible teaches that giving thanks should be a priority. We have the example of the Apostle Paul who begins almost all his letters to the early churches by expressing thanks. Also we receive instruction in passages such as Colossians 3:1-17, titled “Rules for Holy Living” in the NIV, which closes with “And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him,” and Ephesians 5:20, which encourages us to always give “thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.”

Although it may take time to work up to thanking God for everything, a grateful attitude will allow us to see our relationship with Him in the proper perspective. We will understand our great need for God and stay humble before Him and the people around us. Let’s be a blessing to God and others as we focus on developing and expressing a heart of thanksgiving.

Here are six creative ways to help develop an attitude of gratitude:

1. Family thanksgiving journal. Use a notebook or blank journal to record what your family is thankful for. Add to it all year round during family devotions, or create an annual tradition where each family member contributes one message a year. Read past entries as a reminder of God’s faithfulness.

2. Name exchange. This is an idea for a dinner party or holiday gathering. Toss everyone’s name in a hat, then have each person draw one name. Allow some time for thought, then have everyone take a turn finishing this sentence, “I’m thankful for _[name drawn]__ because ________.”

3. Table accents. Create easy, yet meaningful favors or place cards for guests at your holiday dinner.

  • Use a paint pen to write “Thank you, God, for family and friends,” on pressed leaves. Place one on each plate.
  • Bundle a few wrapped chocolates or unshelled nuts in little squares of netting. Tie them with fall-colored ribbon and add a Psalm 95:2 tag, “Let us come before him with thanksgiving…”

4. Thankful notes. Writing requires us to slow down, reflect, and choose our words carefully.
1 Thessalonians 5:11 tells us to “encourage one another and build each other up…” Thoughtfully telling people what they mean to you will build up their spirit.

  • If you have a husband, write a letter detailing why you’re thankful for him. Find a nice quiet time to read it aloud to him.
  • If you have children, write a letter to each of them, separately. (Write even if they are young. They’ll treasure it some day.) If you have teens, perhaps leave the letters in their rooms to be “discovered” and read alone. Identify their strengths and encourage them with appreciative comments on those positive characteristics.
  • Keep several little note cards in supply. Then once a month, ask God to show you someone to bless — a neighbor, bus driver, scout leader or co-worker. A simple note saying “I thank God for you” will suffice.

5. Church staff appreciation. Many churches now celebrate a Pastor appreciation day, but what about those serving behind-the-scenes? Galatians 6:10 says, “As we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.” Gather a few church friends and assign one staff member to each. Each friend brings a card and a baked good to her worker on behalf of everyone.

6. Thankful box. Purchase a small decorative box or wrap a shoebox with pretty paper. Put a notepad and pen inside and set it on your dresser. Everytime you’re angry with a person or situation in your life, write a note to God before you go to bed that night, expressing why you’re thankful for that person or difficulty. Use these slips during future quiet times to randomly select someone or something to pray for.

These outward activities serve to change us inside, to change our hearts. An earnestly developed attitude of gratitude will be reflected in our private walk with God. Be encouraged to “enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name” (Psalm 100:4).


10 Responses to “6 Creative Ways to Develop Gratitude”

  • Kate says:

    It is great to see the encouragement here.

  • Edmond says:

    I really thank the almighty God this article, this supposed to be the attitude of everyone to God, spouses, friends and families if only we can inculcate this attitude we will definitely put smiles on people’s faces and also gladdens the heart of God to do more 4 us. God bless the writer. I bless God!

  • Jason says:

    This article is really relevant. I am going with the thank you Family Journal. 70 years from now if Christ tarries , my Great Grand Children will be inspired to know how Awesome God has been to Daddy , Grand Daddy and Great Grand Daddy. Lord , thank you for this article and do bless and touch everyone who reads this and desires to have a gratitude attitude. In Jesus name. Amen.

  • Sharon says:

    great article thank you for posting this good one I love it

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  • sharonb says:

    all were great ideas i found some i am goping to do

  • Lily says:

    How sad to read about the husbands leaving their famlies! i always see how it’s more men than woman who abandon thier spouses and it seems to me it the woman who do all the praying and trying so hard to not let it happen. i pray for the men of this world! God bless you two!!

  • Melanie says:

    Luann – your response really touched my heart this morning – you are such a brave woman! My ex husband ended our marrage 10 years ago after 22 years and three sons – devestating for us all and I remembered that first very painful Christmas. I loved your ‘gift’ idea and will be using your idea this year – we too often forget the meaning of a spiritual Christmas.

  • Luann says:

    I went through a separation last year from my husband whom I love dearly. He is ending our 34 year marriage now. That first Christmas was a difficult one without him, but with our 3 grown/married children & grandchildren. I used the fruits of the spirit, love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, etc. as 3×5 notes taped near the tree. In order to receive a gift you had to choose another person and tell why you see “love”. or “joy”, etc. in that person, then pick out a gift with their name on it (or you could choose one for yourself for being bold enough to get up and get going)…it was a great way to pass around gifts, each one got to really be blessed by the gift rather than shredding everything in 5 minutes or less. It was surprising how people (say parents) had to struggle a bit to think of a fruit they recognized in another person’s life…yet they did so and it was the most meaningful spiritual Christmas we have probably ever had. Out of sorrow and discouragement, we found true JOY, what a precious time it was.

  • Great article. I see that most of the suggestions involve writing down our “thank you’s”. I’ve found that writing them down does make a difference. It affirms them differently that just saying “Thank God!”

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