Comments on: Unthinkable Loss: Miscarriage and Stillbirth

By: cfast

Wed, 03 Nov 2010 18:40:32 +0000

Monica, Power to Change offers free mentors who can speak with you privately. Would you be interested?

By: Doris Beck

Tue, 02 Nov 2010 19:00:19 +0000

Monica I can hear your pain and I have walked this journey as well. It is so overwhelming right now and I would suggest that you click on the “Talk to a Mentor” box on the side bar and ask to be matched with a mentor that will pray for you along this journey and email back to you. For today, know that God sees your tears and that they are precious so him.

By: Daniel

Daniel — Tue, 02 Nov 2010 14:19:50 +0000

Monica, it is true that limitless “why” abound everywhere in our lives. There are so many things we do not fully understand but one thing is certain OUR GOD IS GOOD DESPITE ALL. Reading through a daily today, I see a reflection of the pains your Sister may be going through now even the entire family. But our comfort most of the times is that despite all things even if things had gone wrong, we are still alive. And once there is life there is hope. Your dearly beloved Sister still has the chance of bringing forth because God has preserved her precious life. What am I saying? What do I mean? may be you think i do not know the gravity of the situations. Monica, do you know that I know that carrying the pregnancy for that months and days are demanding and resource consuming, it is characterized with many hopes and aspirations with its attending stress. i do know but in all, God is still good by sparing her life. Spiritually, we say it is not a good occurrence, what if her life has gone leaving no child? A double tragedy for the entire family! See, I share in your pains and deep cuts. But please as our “whys” abound remember that secret things belong to God. So, have hope still in God because her tears will soon be wiped away. She will soon smile and come out of labour room with her own child. As for the family, it is time to comfort her not with cries which will add to the pain rather needed attention of love, faith and hope. How I desire that you will see it that A DOOR WILL NEVER CLOSE IF A BETTER ONE HAS NOT BEEN OPENED. God bless you.

By: Monica

Monica — Tue, 02 Nov 2010 08:58:30 +0000

My youger sister lost her baby girl “honeybee” just one day before the due date on 28th october 2010. It has devastated the whole family. She was the first grandchild to my parents. I do not know how to console her. We are all with her but her pain is beyond anything. Please help me and mail me. I am so sorry for everyone’s loss. God has a plan I know but the limitless “why” does not seem to end!

By: Daniel

Daniel — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 00:15:33 +0000

Lisa,
Grief and guilt become inevitable in the face of pain and sorrow but one thing is certain either you call it self-inflicted or otherwise WE DO NOT HAVE A HIGH PRIEST WHO DO NOT SHARE IN OUR FEELINGS. Though we might have disobeyed Him, yet like the prodigal son, He will restore us back into His kingdom. How does it sound for a man to leave 99 in search of 1? God is at best in this. He is still on your side. The one called barrren can still born Seven. Rahab was a big time harlot yet became one of the women in the lineage of Jesus Christ. What of Bathseba? Lost a son to adultery but later had the wisest king in Israel. God has not yet concluded on your case. Believe me He is working on it. Soon you will be here again to share the testimony. Thank God you have openned up to Him. Good that you have a mentor working it out with you. Rely on God’s help even when the Devil come harrassing you on your past leave the room to avoid depression and take a walk but tell him IN His blood.

By: Lisa Gore

Lisa Gore — Sat, 05 Jun 2010 16:50:48 +0000

I would also like to add before I knew Christ, I killed my child. I often hurt because I refused a gift that God gave me inspite of my sin that I now long for but He has chosen not to give me again. REGRET=PAIN LOST=PAIN Unfulfilled Desires=Pain and REGRET + LOST + Unfulfilled Desires =DEPRESSION

By: Lisa Gore

Lisa Gore — Sat, 05 Jun 2010 16:45:07 +0000

wow, tears roll down my face unstopable! I am encouraged and saddened at the same time. I haven abortted a child (before I came to Christ) lost a child by miscarriage, and now seem to be barren after surgery and only one fallopian tube. Been trying for 8 years and it’s been a fight to not stay depressed. I’ve seen all of my friends get pregenate and all of the people who had my problem get blessed with a mirical baby. There was so much hope after my surgery in dec.2009, but nothing has come. My 16 year old son that I gave birth to (who i was considering abortting) has been in so much trouble and evil that my heart cries now that he has left me with an empty nest! I often feel like if I am not a mother then who am I? I desire to be a mother and not just to adobt but to carry my child in my stomach. i miss all of my children, and at 35 I still desire to be a nuturing mother. Each persons pains looks like something different but it has the same color. Thank you ladies for sharing.(I have signed up for a mentor)
Lisa

By: Leah Kullman

Fri, 04 Jun 2010 18:45:23 +0000

Hi Teresa

I am sorry for your loss, I could not even imagine the pain and grief you are going through. If you would like to talk to a mentor, just comment back and let me and I will help you get set up with mentor.

Leah

By: Teresa

Teresa — Fri, 04 Jun 2010 17:14:48 +0000

We lost our son Zachary to SIDS on February 15, 2008. Although it has been two years I miss him more now than ever. We now have a beautiful little boy named Kasen, but I watch him doing things and can’t help but be sad that I never got to see Zachary do the same things. I have peace that someday I will be reunited with my little boy as well as see Christ’s face. God bless all those parents who have lost children. Just know that the Lord knows your pain and cries with you.

By: Leah Kullman

Fri, 04 Jun 2010 15:48:51 +0000

Hi Lizie,

Here is the link to chat http://powertochange.com/discover/chat/room/?channel=cwt-forum&cal=9. The room is only for women and it is open 24/7.

I just wanted to say, grief is grief and if you are experiencing a miscarriage you have the right to grieve. God loves you and his heart is bleeding with yours right now.

Let me know if you need anymore assistance.

Blessings,

Leah