Transformation: How Does it Happen?

Written by Nancy Leigh DeMoss

spiritualgrowth_transformation“Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:2).

Recently I ran into a woman I had not seen for several weeks. I hardly recognized her. Her hair, usually blonde, had turned completely white. The transformation was dramatic; she looked like a different person. All it took was 40 minutes and some bleach!

If only spiritual transformation were that easy. Just read a book, see a counselor, attend a conference, make a fresh commitment, resolve to be different, shed a few tears at an altar, memorize a few verses…and, presto, out comes a mature, godly Christian.

To the contrary, the experience of many believers looks like this:

  • Commit. Fail. Confess.
  • Re-commit. Fail again. Confess again.
  • Re-re-commit. Fail again. Give up.

After all the struggle and the effort, we tend to want a “quick fix” – a book, a conference, a counselor, an encounter, a miraculous deliverance, a program – something that will be effective and preferably pain-free. We want God (or someone else) to do something to us for a once-for-all victory so that we won’t have to keep wrestling with the same old issues.

In my own walk with God, I have discovered some helpful principles about how spiritual change takes place.

  • Deep, lasting spiritual change is a process
    It rarely happens overnight. It involves training, testing and time. There are no shortcuts. We hear of people being dramatically delivered from drug or alcohol addiction, and we may wonder, “Why doesn’t God do that for me? Why do I have to struggle with this food addiction, with lust, worry, and fear, with an unbridled tongue?”

    Occasionally God does grant instantaneous victory, but more often He leads us through a process that requires obedience, faith, discipline and time. God is committed to winning the hearts, developing the hearts and developing the character of His people.

  • Spiritual change requires desire
    We need to ask ourselves: Do I really want to change, or am I content to remain as I am? How important is it to me to be like Jesus? What price am I willing to pay to be godly?

    Deep within God’s children is a desire to please Him. That desire is nurtured by prayer (acknowledging our dependence on Him) and by meditation on Christ, the object of our desire. As I read the Scripture and gaze on the Lord Jesus, I long to be like Him – humble, holy, compassionate, surrendered to the will of God, sensitive to the promptings of the Spirit. When our desire to be holy is greater than our willingness to stay where we are, we have taken a big step toward spiritual transformation.

  • Spiritual change flows out of an intimate relationship with Jesus
    We want to please those we love, and we are grieved when we offend them. The more we love Jesus, the greater will be our motivation to obey Him and to make the choices that please Him. The ultimate issue in life is what or whom we worship. The process of true change takes place as we are weaned from our love and worship of self, pleasure and this world; and our hearts become wholly devoted to Christ.
  • Spiritual change requires discipline
    I can remember as a college student sitting for hours on end in tiny, windowless practice rooms, playing the same piece of music again and again. I knew that I never would reach my goal – to make beautiful music – without that rigorous discipline.

    Discipline for the purpose of godliness is not the same as self effort. Rather, it means consciously cooperating with the Holy Spirit – yielding to Him so that He can conform us to the image of Christ. The problem is, we want the outcome without the process. We want victory without the warfare.

    Praying and hoping for spiritual change is futile if we sit glued to a television set or neglect the means that God has provided for our growth in grace. Bible study, meditation, worship, prayer, fasting, accountability and obedience are disciplines that produce a harvest of righteousness in our lives.

  • Spiritual change is brought about by the Holy Spirit, as we exercise faith and obedience
    So which is it? Does God do the work, or do we? According to Scripture, the answer is “yes.” Philippians 2:12-13 says, “Work out your salvation…for it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose.” True spiritual change is initiated and enabled by the indwelling Spirit of God; it is all of grace, which we receive as we persevere in humility, obedience and faith.
  • Spiritual change is possible (and assured) because of the new life we received when we were born again
    According to God’s Word, at the point of regeneration we became, “a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!” (2 Corinthians 5:17). For believers, holy living is not a matter of trying harder, but rather of walking in the reality of a supernatural change that already has taken place. Sanctification is the process by which the change of God has wrought within us is worked out in our daily experience, as we “are being transformed into [Christ’s] likeness” (2 Corinthians 3:18). It is a lifelong – and sometimes painful – process. But we have the confidence that one day the transformation will be complete, and, “we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is” (1 John 3:2).

If you are a believer in Jesus Christ, God has given you His Holy Spirit to help you live life according to His perfect plan. Why not pray this simple prayer and by faith invite Him to fill you with His Spirit:

Dear Father, I need You. I acknowledge that I have sinned against You by directing my own life. I thank You that You have forgiven my sins through Christ’s death on the cross for me. I now invite Christ to again take His place on the throne of my life. Fill me with the Holy Spirit as You commanded me to be filled, and as You promised in Your Word that You would do if I asked in faith. I pray this in the name of Jesus. As an expression of my faith, I thank You for directing my life and for filling me with the Holy Spirit. Amen.

This article was taken from DECISION magazine, May, 2001; ©2001 Billy Graham Evangelistic Association, used by permission. All rights reserved.


7 Responses to “Transformation: How Does it Happen?”

  • Aldo says:

    William, I am happy that this article has confirmed what the Lord has placed in your heart. That is what the Christian life is all about- knowing that the Lord has spoken to you, and then being obedient to Him.

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    May God continue to lead you in the way He wants you to go, in Jesus Name, Amen.

  • William Ngaka says:

    Thank you very much for conforming what the Lord has put in my heart this morning while praying. God bless you and use you continue strengthening peoples’lifes.

  • Sharon says:

    good article thank you God transforms your life. HE has with mine for sure and I am a lot happier I think praise God for HIS continued work in my life

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  • Kate says:

    Ryan, thanks for encouraging. Emmanuel, so glad to hear you were encouraged.

  • Ryan says:

    Thanks for this article I used it this morning for a devotional with men as we gather to pray. As a leader in the church I was recently questioning that we have all this teaching but it seems nobody Is changing christians struggle and fail miserably. Spiritual disciplines are key to cultivating the environment for change and transformation. God bless,

  • Emmanuel Katsvamutima says:

    Thank you for this guidance, you brought a fresh breath in my life today. Glory be to God. Amen

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