Comments on: My Son Who is in Heaven

By: Nathalie

Nathalie — Tue, 26 Mar 2013 19:38:21 +0000

Wow, how do I know how you mommy’s feel like is beyond any words. I have myself lost 2 baby’s. One at 29 weeks and one at 26 weeks. Today would be my son 15th Bday. After all these years tears still were rolling down my face this am when I woke up and thought about him. It trully does get better but the pain will never go away. I too now have 2 beautiful children to be grateful, blessed with and I’m now trying to enjoy every moments with them that I can. May God be with us and all our little baby’s in heaven.

By: shelley

shelley — Wed, 13 Mar 2013 17:28:12 +0000

To my sister Avril-let me take your concern to our Father who is in heaven.
Dear Daddy-You know so well what my sister is going through at this time in her life, as she remembers her daughter that is with You in heaven. You are watching over hre daughter until they meet one day in there palace that is waiting for them to reunit to each other. I pray that You Daddy will comfort my sister Avril with Your Mighty arms and let her feel Your warmth to her. In Jesus Mightyname amen

By: Beth Scholes

Tue, 12 Mar 2013 20:11:08 +0000

Avril, Thank you for your kind, encouraging words. I am so sorry for your loss as well. I agree time helps the emotionally overwhelming feelings, but we will NEVER forget these precious babies. I am so glad you have keepsakes to remember her by, they help VERY much. We actually lost two babies, Jacob whom you read about and Grace one year later. I have more items to remember Grace with, and they do help. With Jacob I have what I have written. Blessings to you, and may we always remember with those who understand or need understanding.

By: Avril

Avril — Sat, 09 Mar 2013 15:31:54 +0000

What a lovely letter, truly written from within your heart. Tears formed as I read your words.
I’m very sorry for. Your loss.
My 1st daughter was stillborn at 24 weeks – no cause found. She and I were healthy according to numerous tests etc.
She would be 8 years old now and I still wonder what she would look like, what her voice would sound like, how she would laugh, but I will never know. But, I do have a scrapbook and keepsake box of her. I have ultrasounds, photos courtesy of the hospital staff and my sister, her footprints thanks to hospital staff, hospital id band, her hospital clothes and blanket.
I will be forever grateful for the things I have to look at and hold.
I have a 3 year old son and 2 year old daughter who are my world, they are precious, but the pain will never leave over losing my first daughter. Its not as bad as the years go by, but the pain does remain.
My 2 year old daughter brought some light to my 1st daughters anniversary/birthday. I left the hospital with a healthy baby girl on the exact day/date of my 1st daughters birth/death (6th anniversay). Though this takes nothing away from my 1st daughter, it does bring a smile to think my 2 daughters are associated with this one day.

No one can ever know what it is like to lose a child without experiencing the heartbreaking loss and no one deserves to experience this.

I am sorry for your loss. Your letter is beautiful and so accurate it hurts.