Comments on: How do I change my controlling ways? http://powertochange.com Mon, 04 Jun 2012 03:40:18 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: kali http://powertochange.com/life/controlling/comment-page-1/#comment-53846 kali Wed, 25 Nov 2009 20:07:15 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9820#comment-53846 You did not mentioned whether you are abusive because a lot of the times when people are very controlling they are most likely possessive and abusive, it all falls hand in hand, I do suggest you seek counseling to resolve past issues because if you don't you just might end up losing your wife and kids and you will feel very guilty and sorry, Learn to trust and realize that you cannot be in control of everything, i feel these people cannot control things in their own lives so they feel the need to control someone elses. Good luck and I wish you the best. I'm trying to get help for this same situation as well, I lost my love so i'm trying to prevent you to lose yours. You did not mentioned whether you are abusive because a lot of the times when people are very controlling they are most likely possessive and abusive, it all falls hand in hand, I do suggest you seek counseling to resolve past issues because if you don’t you just might end up losing your wife and kids and you will feel very guilty and sorry, Learn to trust and realize that you cannot be in control of everything, i feel these people cannot control things in their own lives so they feel the need to control someone elses.
Good luck and I wish you the best. I’m trying to get help for this same situation as well, I lost my love so i’m trying to prevent you to lose yours.

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