I caught my co-workers kissing
I walked in and found a friend that I work with kissing a co-worker who is married. She always said she would never go after a married man, because she knows what it’s like to be the wife of a man who cheats (she is divorced). I feel very uncomfortable around both of these people at work, and I’m not the guilty one.
Advice: It sounds as though you feel betrayed. Both of them are willing to betray and lie, so I would think it natural that you would be careful around them. They are not safe, so keep a distance. They do not have your values, so I would not entrust confidences to them. Their infidelity is their concern not yours. Don’t talk about it or gossip. Let it go. You were embarrassed and will get over it as time goes on and you have other things to think about unless it has triggered an old issue for you. Dr. Ginger
