I recently met a man who said he wasn’t married. He pushed for a relationship and I fell head over heals for him. Then I found out that he is married. Now he has started treating my unkindly and playing games and I don’t know whether to say goodbye for good and bear the total loneliness or to keep hoping that he will become what I need. When I don’t rock the boat he is wonderful to me and makes me love him all the more, but when I rock the boat, he becomes somewhat mean and pushy.
Advice: It seems that everyone has been strung along by the married man, until his wife gives him some ultimatum. And the affair gets burned. My advice is that once you find out he is married, dump him. If you don’t want the commitment of marriage, then you can play along with the game till you get bored or want something more from him. Besides the guy is a liar-why would you want to be in a relationship with a liar? Dr. Ginger