My husband wants sex all the time
My husband is 23 and I am 20. Lately he has been wanting sex all the time. He and I both thought it was just a phase, but it has gone on for a while now. Is it just a phase or what?
Advice: Most couples find they are off schedule much of the time. The solution is to talk about how much sex you want in your marriage. Many women say they like sex every night, that it makes them feel closer to their husband. Others prefer once a month. My guess would be that those who like to talk and get a lot of intimacy through sharing deep thoughts may have less of a need for frequent physical intercourse. Men who have trouble sharing deep feelings may be able to share only through physical intimacy. If you would like you husband to share more verbally and less physically, a good marriage counsellor can help
the two of you find the words to express those feelings. Either way you have to talk about frequency of sex. If sex wears you out too much, maybe you are trying to please him too much instead of just enjoying the process. By the way, how long have the two of you been married? That may have something to do with it. Let us know if you can get him to talk.
