I had a wonderful date with a friend at work. He continued to ask me out afterwards, but then began to stand me up. He would call occasionally and come by just to talk. A month and a half later, he asked me out for the fifth time and stood me up again without a call. He wrote an e-mail apology that he was working and he really had a female friend come in from out of town. I wrote an angry e-mail and then pulled back by calling and telling him that I felt hurt by his actions. What should I do?
Advice: The best answer is “What you see is what you get.” If he’s doing this to you now, he would probably do it after you get married. If you don’t like his dating-friendship behavior, then maybe you should remain friends. If you want to remain on a friendship basis with him, he sounds like a nice guy. Just don’t count on him for something important. Like your life.