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The Pornography Revolution

At the end of last year I lead a class discussion on the topic of Internet pornography (I teach at a private Christian school in southern California). As we discussed openly with each other, a young man sitting in the back became noticeably disturbed by the conversation, which was evident by his body posture and lack of eye contact. He stayed after...

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Parameters for Sex in a Christian Marriage

In today’s “anything goes” culture what are the parameters for good sex between a Christian husband and wife?  Are there some things that are off limits?  What about sex toys? Do they have a place in a Christian marriage? How do you know if a sexual act is wrong between a husband and wife? These are common and important questions. God...

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Women and Porn

Porn isn't just for men anymore. Thirty-five percent of online porn users are women. Women are attracted to porn for different reasons than men. Women want to be wanted. But porn changes the way women become aroused. Relationship expert Sheila Wray Gregoire explains how to be aroused by a spouse again. Take the next step: Porn affects your sex...

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Why Can't I Look at Porn?

Isn't porn harmless? If you think your use of porn isn't hurting anybody, think again. Porn rewires your brain and can affect your relationships long-term, says relationship expert Sheila Wray Gregoire. Eventually you become aroused by an image, not your spouse. The short-term gratification of porn is never worth the long-term effects. Take the...

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The Effects of Porn on Marriage

Will porn spice up your sex life? The short answer is no. Watching porn with your spouse will only make it difficult to be aroused by him or her. Sex starts to be about the images you've seen. Even if you're physically present, you're not really "making love." Relationship expert Sheila Wray Gregoire says couples need to put the porn away and focus...

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Why Does He Look at Porn?

Is your husband looking at porn? Don't freak out, get help. If he's addicted to porn he needs an accountability partner. It can be a pastor or a friend but give him time. It may take a while for him to be aroused by you again. He needs to know you're his ally. Porn is a common struggle for men and relationship expert Sheila Wray Gregoire explains...

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Just One Look: Overcoming the lure of Internet pornography

Sitting at my computer, I scrolled through the list of web sites most recently visited on my computer. I couldn't believe my eyes. With a click of my mouse, I watched in horror as sexually illicit pictures appeared on my monitor. I couldn't breathe. It felt as though my lungs collapsed and I was suffocating. I sat there, staring in disbelief....

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