How do I change my controlling ways?
While I was surfing the web I came across an article on husbands with control issues. After reading several articles on traits of a controlling husband, I can see that I fit the description. My wife, whom I love with all my heart, is at her wits end with my constant concern of 'time watching' when she comes home from work and the clothes she wears...
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Yearning for Green Pastures
A few years ago my husband applied for a job promotion with the company he had been with for a little over four years. We knew that along with the promotion would also come an immediate transfer to another state. Fortunately, however, the new location would only be one hour from our present home. As we received the news that Allan had been chosen...
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Male Order Shopping
Any other women having trouble buying for men? The last gift-giving occasion, I asked for a list from my husband. I had a tough time reading it. I kept dozing off. I’d share it with you, but I’d run the risk of snoozing through my own column. I’ll tell you, though, that the highlight was a paper shredder. I’ll provide the list if you’re...
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My husband picks fights with me about my beliefs
I have been a Christian my whole life. In the past two years, I have become closer to God than I have ever been due to a hardship in my life. However, my husband, who used to believe in God, now proclaims to not believe in God and tries to pick fights with me about my beliefs. I have asked God for his help, but my husband seems to be getting worse....
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My husband is controlling and possessive
My husband is very controlling and possessive. He believes in a marriage until death do you part, and says if I ever want to leave him he'll shoot me before I'm out the front door. He has hit me in the past and I'm not allowed to do a lot of things either. We have two kids and been married 12 years. I'm real scared of him and would appreciate any...
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My husband is meeting women online
A year ago my husband started chatting with women on the Internet. All his free time is spent chatting with these women. I have become very jealous and hurt over this. We argue about it all the time. He says that the women don't mean anything to him but he won't quit. There is one woman that he seems very close to they talk everyday. He is very...
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My husband has a bad temper
My husband and I are having disagreements lately. We mostly argue about his temper, and whenever he gets angry with me, he starts swearing. Just last weekend, he slapped me twice. How can I approach the topic with him again so we can sort out our disagreements?
Advice: Don't argue about his temper. If he hits you, you call the police. Don't warn...
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