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Clarence and the Cancer Cage

“You have cancer.” Dr. Marshall quickly went on to describe the treatment program.... Clarence only heard the diagnosis. The day he feared since his mother’s death had finally arrived. The predator that stalked him mentally now claimed its victim physically. It was real. This was the day he officially became a cancer patient. All those...

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Are you being stereotyped?
Are you being stereotyped?

My grey hair got me into an interesting situation lately at the local supermarket. I brought my basket of purchases up to the teller and exchanged the normal pleasantries.  I had selected various fruit juices, some fresh fruit and a copy of the daily paper.  I paid with a debit card. When the transaction was over the young man at the end of...

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A Whole New Perspective
A Whole New Perspective

My husband and I worked in ministry overseas for 25 years. Once we lived in a country where our house was robbed five times. I always felt anger, fear and insecurity because someone had been in my home without my permission and took many favorite things. Cancer came like that – without my permission. It introduced vulnerability and weakness...

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Erectile Dysfunction: No Laughing Matter
Erectile Dysfunction: No Laughing Matter

It's a very delicate topic - one that couples are often reluctant to discuss openly. Indeed, former U.S. Sen. Bob Dole's admission that he was a sufferer of erectile dysfunction (ED) quickly became fodder for the likes of Letterman and Leno. But for anyone who's experienced ED, there's nothing funny about it. According to the U.S. National Library...

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A Handicap is a State of Mind
A Handicap is a State of Mind

Do you know some handicapped persons who amaze you by their positive attitudes? I do. After a 29-year record of traffic safety, a Pennsylvania man had his driver's license revoked because he had no arms.  After it was brought to the governor's attention, however, the State Motor Vehicle Department was ordered to reconsider the decision and allow...

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Avoiding the Men’s Mid-Life Crisis
Avoiding the Men's Mid-Life Crisis

Low testosterone levels may sometimes be to blame for the physical and emotional challenges that aging men must face. For many men, the midpoint in life brings a great deal of frustration and worry. It’s a period where men first begin to notice their bodies are slowing down. Unwanted physical and emotional changes begin to creep in. Combine...

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Should I Stay or Should I Go?
Should I Stay or Should I Go?

If you are against the idea of leaving your long time home, or still "sitting on a fence" about whether to stay or move, let me give you my perspective on this. Changes, changes, changes Although I read and hear over and over again about the value of "aging in place" (remaining in your family home as you age), I just don't buy it. Just as...

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Your Money: Powerful Weapon or Loving Reward?
Your Money: Powerful Weapon or Loving Reward?

What is your financial nature? Are you painstakingly careful with your money or are you known to live beyond your means and spend it as soon as you get it? Would they call you a cheapskate or overly generous? Maybe you don’t realize it, but the money you control has the power to affect several generations in a positive or negative way. Where...

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