My wife has a lack of interest in sex
My wife and I love each other very much, however, for the last two years, her interest in sex has really declined. Mine, has not. As a result, I am not being satisfied sexually. Recently, I have had to masturbate, which to me feels wrong. In addition, I am starting to be attracted to other females and am on the edge of developing a relationship with...
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How safe is sex without a condom?
I am 25 years old. I am worrying about sex with my boyfriend. He doesn't like to use condoms and persuades me that it is safe if we just interrupt sex, but I am always afraid of pregnancy. Maybe I can calculate my safe days before or after menstruation? After sex I cannot get to sleep and I still feel very exited because he is near me. I feel very...
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Life After Divorce: Now What?
Have you been through a divorce? Confide in an online mentor and let them walk with you.
Divorce is a great loss and a crisis that has a huge impact the lives of everyone involved. If you have experienced, or are experiencing divorce, my heart goes out to you. I know about divorce. My parents were divorced when I was 12 years old. It was painful....
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Better Than a Fairy Tale: Who is your "Perfect Prince"
It was a lazy Sunday afternoon. The sun was bright and the sky was clear. Birds chirped back and forth as if they were sharing the happenings of the last week with one another. Out of the kitchen window, one could see a mother washing the family car as two neighbourhood boys sat nearby on the curb and lazily tossed small chips of gravel back and...
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Preparing for Marriage
You're engaged. The date is set. The biggest, happiest day of your life is just a few months away.
Bliss becomes burden as you feel the pressure of wedding planning. Your gown, formalwear, dates, deposits. Banquet hall or caterer? Band or DJ? Where to honeymoon? Who's in the bridal party? Flower selection, budget decisions, guest list.
After...
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Just One Look: Overcoming the lure of Internet pornography
Sitting at my computer, I scrolled through the list of web sites most recently visited on my computer. I couldn't believe my eyes. With a click of my mouse, I watched in horror as sexually illicit pictures appeared on my monitor.
I couldn't breathe. It felt as though my lungs collapsed and I was suffocating. I sat there, staring in disbelief....
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Maculinity is spelled P.R.O.A.C.T.I.V.E
Peter Coughlin's book is for every man who thought being good meant being "nice." It's also for the men who know that being offensive at times is needed, and for the men who don't just take opportunities, but make them. Read what Coughlin has to say about being "nice" when life is a diificult battle.
I cannot overstress the importance of beginning...
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