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The Five Levels of Intimacy

First comes love…or sex? “First comes love, then comes marriage, then here they come with a baby carriage.” You may recognize this little rhythm my generation used to sing to embarrass each other.  Based on today’s culture the rhythm could go: “First comes sex, then comes living together, and the baby carriage could happen anytime or...

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5 Levels of Communication
5 Levels of Communication

Misunderstanding leads to breakups About one in two marriages ends in a divorce these days. We are all too familiar with the various problems that can lead to a breakup. Arguments can begin at sunrise and not stop until after sunset. This kind of fragile relationship is like a time bomb ready to explode at any time. Some couples may keep it all...

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Rebuilding Trust
Rebuilding Trust

Has your trust been broken? Talk to a mentor today. One of my clients once asked me what it means to trust another human being. She wanted to know how she should react when a spouse or significant other is dishonest, inconsiderate or having an affair. She wondered if it is possible to rebuild trust in someone who disappoints us greatly. What...

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Emotional Abandonment: Shut out by your spouse
Emotional Abandonment: Shut out by your spouse

Do you feel abandoned? Our mentors are here for you. Request a mentor today. It's a complaint I hear regularly from people looking for help for their marriages:"I feel distant from my spouse." "I try to get my husband to open up, but instead he just shuts down." "My wife just doesn't seem interested in me anymore. I feel like we're a million...

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Does God Promise You a Spouse?
Does God Promise You a Spouse?

Do wonder if God has heard your prayers? Learn what to do when God is silent with this interactive study. Jennifer was a disgruntled, single woman at my church. She was thirty-six years old and complained that her life was slipping away. Six years had passed since her last boyfriend, and her dating life remained in limbo. Jennifer wondered...

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Help! My Husband Doesn’t Want Sex!
Help! My Husband Doesn't Want Sex!

You might feel like you're alone in this, but you're not. Free email mentoring is available today. Request a mentor.  So often I hear about how much men need sex, but my husband has no interest in sex. The only time we make love is when I initiate it. Is there something wrong with me? Why doesn't my husband want me? Donalyn: Well first...

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