They were good people. They had made it known that divorce was not an option for them. Yet here they were, going their separate ways and leaving a path of confusion and chaos behind them. There was no love affair to blame, no abuse that had been hidden. Just a slow erosion, a drifting apart, a building of resentments until one felt there was nothing...

Okay, that's a really corny title, but I've been thinking for a while about the verse in Song of Solomon which says, "Do not awaken love until it is ready." I think some of us have let our love be awakened too early, or too abruptly, and so it never really woke at all. Several routes to this disastrous awakening exist. The first is obvious:...

It is likely no surprise to you that God has wired women and men differently. We all recognize some of these differences, but others often hide in plain sight. Shaunti Feldhahn, a nationally syndicated newspaper columnist, author and speaker recently wrote a fantastic book, For Women Only: What You Need to Know About the Inner Lives of Men. In it,...

In today’s “anything goes” culture what are the parameters for good sex between a Christian husband and wife?  Are there some things that are off limits?  What about sex toys? Do they have a place in a Christian marriage? How do you know if a sexual act is wrong between a husband and wife? These are common and important questions. God...

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What is Wrong With Multiple Sex Partners?

Is it emotionally dangerous to have a lot of sexual partners? We are all aware of the physical risks associated with multiple sex partners, but could these choices also put you at risk for heartache? It might surprise you to hear that research shows that people who wait until their married to have sex end up with the best sex lives and the most...

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Women and Porn

Porn isn't just for men anymore. Thirty-five percent of online porn users are women. Women are attracted to porn for different reasons than men. Women want to be wanted. But porn changes the way women become aroused. Relationship expert Sheila Wray Gregoire explains how to be aroused by a spouse again. Take the next step: Porn affects your sex...

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She Doesn't Want Sex

What do you do when your partner wants sex more often than you do? In 75% of marriages the husband has a higher sex drive. If a woman feels that people are putting demands on her all day she may find that she just doesn’t have any energy left when she falls into bed at night. A sexless relationship is not going to flourish, but a “grin and bear...