Yearning for Green Pastures
A few years ago my husband applied for a job promotion with the company he had been with for a little over four years. We knew that along with the promotion would also come an immediate transfer to another state. Fortunately, however, the new location would only be one hour from our present home. As we received the news that Allan had been chosen...
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Marriage Pop Quiz!
Please answer each question honestly, bearing in mind that while it is impossible to fail this test, your answers may determine where you'll spend the night.
1. When you are wrong, you will admit it to your partner:
A. Within seconds.
B. Just as soon as cows produce root beer.
C. Usually before sunset.
2. On your most recent vacation, you:
A....
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Surviving His Secret
When the truth was revealed about my husband Will’s secret life*, I was devastated beyond comprehension. The enormity of the betrayal and deceit was unforgivable—12 years of lies! The phone call from the other woman’s husband left me in shock, unable to view anything rationally or move forward in any capacity of life. I could barely function:...
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Heart & Soul: Five ways to pray for your spouse
This Valentine's Day, one thing will say "I love you" better than any card, outlive any flower and be remembered longer than any romantic dinner.
Pray for your spouse.
In my wedding vows, I committed to pray daily for my husband, and the most effective way he communicates love to me is when he prays for me. Keeping a journal of our prayer requests...
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Overcoming Barriers in Praying With Your Husband
Does prayer feel uncomfortable? Does it feel awkward to pray with your husband?
Discomfort was my barrier to overcome. I felt Jim was too grand and way too mature in how he prayed to God. I felt he needed to impress God instead of simply talk to Him. Jim would pray like this:
Oh, Holy and Gracious Father, I throw myself down upon Thee. Thou knowest...
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The Power of a Praying Wife
When I asked my husband to share with me his deepest fears, one of the things he mentioned was the fear of not being a good father. “I believe it’s something men in general tend to fear,” he said. “We get so caught up in doing what we do in our work that we’re afraid we haven’t done enough with our children. Or we’re afraid we haven’t...
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Just One Look: Overcoming the lure of Internet pornography
Sitting at my computer, I scrolled through the list of web sites most recently visited on my computer. I couldn't believe my eyes. With a click of my mouse, I watched in horror as sexually illicit pictures appeared on my monitor.
I couldn't breathe. It felt as though my lungs collapsed and I was suffocating. I sat there, staring in disbelief....
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