Allen Unrau

Family Decisions - Who Decides What?

You feel that your mother should move.  She wants to stay right where she is and can give you ten good reasons for her decision. You tell her that you have noticed some changes in her life lately and she should take some timely advice. She takes offence at your "intrusion" into her affairs and basically tells you to mind your own business. You...

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Does Your Family Need to Break the Silence?
Does Your Family Need to Break the Silence?

Join me as we listen in on a family meeting. The fact that there is a family meeting actually happening is a tremendous credit to everyone involved. Many issues have been popping up that nobody wanted to deal with, but now it’s time.... Ralph and Eva are 80 and 78 and still live in their own home. 55 year-old Rick and his wife Pat live in the...

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Be Friendly and Live Longer?
Be Friendly and Live Longer?

Will keeping in touch with old friends guarantee to keep you younger? Are well-tended relationships part of a “long life formula?” Can you fight aging by staying as close to as many family members as possible? Do you want to live a rich long life? Then make some friends and plan to spend some quality time with them on a regular basis. A...

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Living Near Your Children…Bonus or Bad Move?
Living Near Your Children…Bonus or Bad Move?

Half a century ago most families stayed in the same area. You lived your life in close proximity to most of your relatives. Children would marry and move away from home. This “moving away from home” usually meant a few miles or at most it may have been the next town where they established their roots. There is an old Dutch proverb that says:...

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Your Money: Powerful Weapon or Loving Reward?
Your Money: Powerful Weapon or Loving Reward?

What is your financial nature? Are you painstakingly careful with your money or are you known to live beyond your means and spend it as soon as you get it? Would they call you a cheapskate or overly generous? Maybe you don’t realize it, but the money you control has the power to affect several generations in a positive or negative way. Where...

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Are Finances a Family Affair?
Are Finances a Family Affair?

When you were growing up you always assumed that your parents had money. You probably weren’t sure how much they were worth or where they kept it but you were pretty certain there was a stache for a rainy day somewhere. They must have been able to save a fair amount because every once in a while your Dad would come home with a new car. He despised...

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Don’t Complain They are too Busy For You
Don’t Complain They are too Busy For You

Harold is seventy-three and lives alone.  Six months ago he made a big transition from the family home to a two-bedroom apartment. It was amazing how many folks were there to help with the packing and the move.  His oldest son Bruce even took time off work to oversee the whole affair. Quite frankly, Harold is a bit bored in his new home. He...

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Who’s the Curly Haired Boy in the Photo?
Who’s the Curly Haired Boy in the Photo?

Shawna has become the family genealogist. She is fascinated with the family tree and does a good job of keeping everyone up to date with births, deaths and marriages. Because she is interested in the family history, she is always on the lookout for old family photos. She is known to scour basements and attics in search of those “missing links”...

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