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My husband says he needs some space

The other day my husband told me that he would like to go out alone sometimes. I've been married for about a year.   My husband and I have a very good relationship.  I was used to hanging out with friends when I was single.  But now that I am married, the idea never crossed my mind. I was very disappointed that he wanted to go out alone. ... >Full Story

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Going Deeper

Since you first put your faith in Christ, you've seen some significant changes in your life. You may feel you no longer need: to binge to drink to compete to control to take drugs to gain others' approval to be perfect to lie to cheat to resent to go to porn sites to be promiscuous... In order to fill up the void inside,...... >Read More



Facing Fear with Courage

We live in a world filled with change and crisis. War, terrorist threats, natural disasters, death, human suffering and abductions are in the news 24/7. How do these events impact people? What effects have you experienced when you've watched images of the Twin Towers go up in flames, US troops engaged in battle in Iraq, suicide bombings in London,...... >Read More



Stress Inventory: The Stress of Adjusting to Change

Determine which life events have occurred in your life over the past two years and add up your total stress score then follow the directions below. Events Scale of Impact: Death of a spouse 100 Divorce 73 Marital separation 65 Jail term 63 Death of close family member 63 Personal injury or illness 53 Marriage 50 Fired at work 47 Marital...... >Read More



How's Your Stress Level?

Stress is one of our society's greatest dilemmas. We feel it every day... pressure, strain, tension, sometimes burnout. What is it that causes stress? What makes it so prominent today? How can we get out from under its heavy load? Stress is that feeling you experience when life is closing in on you with too many responsibilities, expectations, personal...... >Read More



I am scared to leave my homosexual lifestyle

I'm quite fearful, honestly, to leave my homosexual lifestyle behind because it's the only lifestyle I've lived that is comfortable and makes me feel good about myself and loved. Advice: First of all, I understand that thinking about leaving the homosexual lifestyle is pretty scary for you right now since you feel comfortable and don't know how...... >Read More



I'm growing in my faith but my husband isn't

My husband and I have been married for many years but over the last 10 years I've been really growing in my faith. My husband, on the other hand, seems no further along in his Christian walk than he was 10 years ago. He thinks and hopes there is a God, but doesn't desire a real relationship with Jesus.... >Read More



Does Forgiveness = No Consequences?

I am struggling with forgiveness. I know that forgiving someone who hurt me is part of my recovery process, but does forgiving someone mean that I need to be willing to treat that person as well as I would treat those I consider my closest friends? (Assuming that it’s appropriate to interact with the person who hurt me.) Does... >Read More


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