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Does Your Marriage Need a Facelift?

If you've been married several years, boredom and flatness may threaten your marital bonds. It may be time for a face lift. Remember, the marriage relationship is ever-changing. Your marriage is either growing and expanding or shrinking and withering. Sometimes couples hesitate to reveal personal concerns that might trigger a conflict. But if... >Full Story

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Feeling Flooded?

Warning! A flood may be coming -- especially when your communication gets washed out. Did you know you can drown your spouse with no water at all? It's true -- it can happen when you feel flooded -- a condition that is usually preceded by washed-out communication! In the closeness of a marriage relationship, from time-to-time we all exchange...... >Read More



Working Together

How can you learn how to share responsibilities and work together? It's not easy, but you can start team building with a let's learn to work together date. Here's how to start: For this date go where you know it will be quiet and you won't be interrupted. Perhaps your favourite coffee house or malt shop. Don't forget to take... >Read More



Are You a Natural or a Learner?

Greg and Megan are "naturals." They enjoy the same things and can even finish each other's sentences. Katie and Walt are anything but naturals. Their interests lie at different ends of the spectrum. With little in common, they continually must adapt to each other and struggle to find ways to connect. Who do you identify with? Most couples must...... >Read More



Write a Love Letter

How long has it been since you're written a love letter to your sweetheart? Too long? Then pull out your pen and paper. The Postal Service is still a bargain. For just a few cents you can brighten your partner's day. We love getting mail -- with the exception of bills and junk mail. "Dear Occupant" or "David and Claudia... >Read More



Why Don't You Throw a Party!

In our fast-paced world, hospitality is a much needed gift. And it can be a gift to our neighbours as well as a gift to our marriage. We can get so busy that we don't really spend time with others, have few couple friendships, and sometimes hardly know our neighbours. But if we are to show neighbourly love, first... >Read More



Marriage: Follow the Golden Rules

At a recent wedding reception we met a delightful couple who had just celebrated their 54th wedding anniversary. They were in their eighties, but you could have fooled us! Articulate. Charming. And the way they smiled at each other was more like the bridal pair than an older married couple. They had just finished reading our book, The Second... >Read More


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