People talk a lot about happiness in the future tense. How many times have you heard friends say, "If I could just find the right guy, I'd be so happy?" But happiness is not a circumstance to wait for. Happiness is being satisfied with who you are, where you are, and where you're going. It's all about you. Happiness requires no one else's approval,...

There are more than enough Top 10 lists out there pointing out the benefits of being single. The pro’s of why being without a mate produces all these side effects that beg to be recognized. You know the ones I’m talking about. Sometimes they come off sympathetic, some patronizing, some like propaganda, and often times far from genuine. It...

I have been going out with a girl for the past two months. Mentally and spiritually, she is great. The only "drawback" about her is she does not know how to dress . . . in short, very poor personal grooming. She works as a primary school teacher. How do I tell her to put some effort to dress herself up well? Advice: The best you can do is to compliment...

I met this guy on a chat room on Valentine's day this year. He is six years older than me (I am 15 years old). We got to know each other really well and we progressed to talking on the phone. We have now fallen in love with each other. We are meeting next Valentine's Day, we have it all arranged to perfection. I can hardly wait. A friend of mine...

The places I go to are usually frequented by students, many of whom have not had the experience of being in love.  We don’t have any older people to counsel us on matters concerning observing chastity with one’s boyfriend before marriage. This has been a great temptation and challenge to me while dating my boyfriend. Can you give me some...