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Breakups: Not Always This Easy
Even when you're the one doing the "breaking" it's rarely easy. This is implied by the violent analogy we've chosen for ending a relationship: "breaking" up. And when you're the one on the receiving end of those dreaded words, it can be quite hurtful. What have you found to be the best way to end a relationship while minimizing the hurt involved?...
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The Laundry Date
How would you get a girl's (or guy's) attention? Flirting is something that is so common but is still so awkward for many people. Say you see someone across the laundry room, how could you approach them without feeling nervous or being intimidating? This guy has an unusual approach. If you are on the dating scene, do you find it difficult to approach...
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MU: How's your Dating Game?
Dating is a lot more complicated than it was a few decades ago. In my great-grandparents generation, things were simple: You married the person who lived nearby in your small town and stayed together for life. But now big city life and online dating has expanded our options considerably, and divorce and second relationships are much more common....
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Being Single - A Different Kind of Freedom
There are more than enough Top 10 lists out there pointing out the benefits of being single. The pro’s of why being without a mate produces all these side effects that beg to be recognized. You know the ones I’m talking about. Sometimes they come off sympathetic, some patronizing, some like propaganda, and often times far from genuine.
It...
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Handling the Holidays
How do you feel about the holidays? Are they difficult ones for you as a single? Or do you look forward to them with excited anticipation?
Whichever emotion is attached to the holidays for you, or something on the spectrum in between, I'd like to offer an encouragement to focus on something and someone beyond those feelings.
Jeremiah, one of...
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Install: LOVE
Customer Service Representative: Can you install LOVE?
Customer: I can do that. I'm not very technical, but I think I am ready to install now. What do I do first?
CS Rep: The first step is to open your HEART. Have you located your HEART ma'am?
Customer: Yes I have, but there are several programs running right now. Is it okay to install while...
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Be Loved For Who You Really Are
Everybody wants to be loved for who they really are - beneath the masks they wear, the impressions they try to make and the mind games they play. But how do we go about doing that? Two of America's most respected, pioneering and sought after authorities on relationship dynamics, Jim Sniechowski and Judith Sherven, challenge our understanding of love...
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