Comments on: Romancing Your Wife

By: Adrych mkato

Adrych mkato — Mon, 19 Dec 2011 12:36:37 +0000

I second the purview taken to address ‘romancing your wife’…welldone people.would also say promote your time you spend in the bed room….just apprecite each other …the private parts nature…play ….laugh..stay there …someone says…make your spouse NO.1…its this understanding that I suppose our Lord started with a man and woman ie fathr and mother…NOT sons or daughters or uncles or siblings etc husband ,wife first please.

By: Brenda

Tue, 13 Dec 2011 14:27:07 +0000

It is wonderful that you love our site so much, Gasolina! I have to say that I am in complete agreement with you! And I just have to add that Dave’s article on romance is tremendous! Thanks so much for this, Dave!

By: Gasolina

Gasolina — Thu, 08 Dec 2011 08:40:38 +0000

hey, i love your site guys. and i love every letter of every word u wrote. and i love the biblical reference as well. big ups!!

By: Doris

Tue, 06 Dec 2011 00:12:35 +0000

I would have to agree with you Shaun! I too think that things will always get better with romancing…and that goes both directions in a relationship! thinking the best of one other is also a good rule to live by(see I Corinthians 13 as an example). thanks for stopping by and taking the time to comment!

By: Shaun Kowalewski

Shaun Kowalewski — Sun, 04 Dec 2011 07:04:38 +0000

Things Will get better with romancing. Having a positive mindset is the key to everything!

By: jpetes

Tue, 01 Nov 2011 22:22:34 +0000

Kelly, thank you for taking the time to comment here. We’re always happy to hear when our articles are helpful. Congratulations on your new relationship. It is so encouraging to see how God can work through all things that leave us broken like your divorce did. I pray that others would be encouraged by your story. As you continue forward in your new love I pray that the Lord would continue to guide you and your son as well.

By: Kelly

Kelly — Tue, 01 Nov 2011 17:13:04 +0000

My divorce from my wife was extremely hard on my son, whom I have custody of, and I, but it has been a year and a half since, and it took much prayer and studying to even begin to think it was possible to give my heart completely to another woman ever again. The very belief of the institution of marriage was challenged in me, but Gods love and patience and guidance through his word taught me what true love and romance is, all over again. God romances us and pursues us throughout the whole bible. The bible is a story of love that was broken, but also how our God has constantly made provisions and efforts to pursue us, and reunite our relationship with him. In saying all this, I believe man needs to learn what love and romance is from the only true source, because God is love. My faith in love and marriage has been rekindled, over the past months, and I finally asked out a woman I’ve been interested in and friends with for the past year. Our relationship is going very well, and I am confident that I know what and how to love someone now. Love is unselfish. It is the giving of yourself. It is pursuing her as if she is the grand prize , because she is. I thank God for teaching me, and being patient with me as I am able to learn what love is. I’m still learning. Much of the sources and information on this sight are very good. I’ve read several of the books mentioned, but if you’re in a troubled relationship, or need helrekindling a flame, pick up the book “Love Dare”, and ask God to open up your heart to learn how to love all over again.

By: Doris

Wed, 10 Aug 2011 04:02:32 +0000

Romancing your wife means different things to different people. Husbands should be students of their wives(and vice versa) and know what their love languages are and what will minister to them. Brian’s ideas of flowers in vases everywhere would really romance one person where another(like Steve) just sees a waste of vases. Isn’t it great that we are all different!!!

By: Catherine

Catherine — Sun, 31 Jul 2011 05:40:06 +0000

There are basic principles to show you love someone. Such as listening to your partner more than you speak. Also put their interests before your own. That can apply to everyday decisions you make together, their needs, or doing activities they want to do instead of insisting having things your way. Have deep respect for one another. Its all about being selfless. If you apply these principles then you will have romance.

By: Steve

Steve — Fri, 22 Jul 2011 07:36:24 +0000

Brian, you did great. Your wife is either depressed or cheating on you. But before you jump to conclusions, have her examined by a physician. Good luck to the both of you.