http://powertochange.com Sat, 20 Mar 2010 01:55:20 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 http://powertochange.com/sex-love/spark/comment-page-1/#comment-50517 Diana Sun, 27 Sep 2009 00:58:16 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9776#comment-50517 Sounds like he has fear of intamacy issues. I would suggest you see a counsellor. Sounds like he has fear of intamacy issues. I would suggest you see a counsellor.

]]> http://powertochange.com/sex-love/spark/comment-page-1/#comment-43234 mike Mon, 06 Apr 2009 02:08:16 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9776#comment-43234 Start with "I love you" and then say I feel like I said something that upset you. wold you like to tell meabout it? If he says yes...problem solved. If he says no then its on him for not talking with you. You did your part by recognizing that there is an issue, and offered to listen to what he had to say. Now its his turn. Start with “I love you” and then say I feel like I said something that upset you. wold you like to tell meabout it? If he says yes…problem solved. If he says no then its on him for not talking with you. You did your part by recognizing that there is an issue, and offered to listen to what he had to say. Now its his turn.

]]> http://powertochange.com/sex-love/spark/comment-page-1/#comment-30187 Julie Tue, 11 Nov 2008 15:29:22 +0000 http://thelife.com/?page_id=9776#comment-30187 I agree with all of your suggestions, but what if your spouse isn't willing to communicate? Whenever I try to express my thoughts or opinions to my husband he just clams up or makes me feel very inferior. We've been married over 25 years and he has been communicating less and less with me. In fact, if he's unhappy with something I said or did he'll just leave the room and sometimes not talk to me for days. If I try and talk to him that just makes him clam up more. How do I get him to open up and communicate without degrading? I agree with all of your suggestions, but what if your spouse isn’t willing to communicate? Whenever I try to express my thoughts or opinions to my husband he just clams up or makes me feel very inferior. We’ve been married over 25 years and he has been communicating less and less with me. In fact, if he’s unhappy with something I said or did he’ll just leave the room and sometimes not talk to me for days. If I try and talk to him that just makes him clam up more. How do I get him to open up and communicate without degrading?

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