What’s your sexual philosophy?
Hey, curious what your sex and love philosophy is? Fill out these questions, and find out what your score means!
1. What does sex mean to you?
a) an irresistible act of passion (4 points)
b) a physical expression of commitment and love (1 point)
c) a component of a relationship – but not the whole thing (2 points)
d) a way to feel better about myself for a while (3 points)
2. You are in a serious relationship with someone and have not yet had sex. Would you be able to wait until that person is ready to take that step?
a) yes… relationships are built on mutual respect (1 point)
b) it would be wrong to pressure them and I’d try not to (2 points)
c) I’d probably end up pressuring them (3 points)
d) no… call it off and look for someone who’s ready (4 points)
3. You are close friends with a person of the opposite sex. You find him/her very attractive. Would you risk losing your friendship by having a fling with him/her?
a) not a fling…but maybe a dating relationship (1 point)
b) it would be a mistake, but… yes (3 points)
c) no… I’d rather not deal with the hurt in the long-run (2 points)
d) oh ya… especially if passion overtook us (4 points)
4. The main things you look for in a boyfriend/girlfriend are:
a) personality, lifestyle compatibility and sexual attraction (1 point)
b) sexual chemistry, popularity, fun (3 points)
c) better than the last boyfriend/girlfriend (2 points)
d) not picky, just looking for a good time (4 points)
5. When a friend / partner asks you about your sexual history:
a) you’re not proud of it, but tell the truth (2 points)
b) you lie – tell them less than the truth (3 points)
c) you honestly don’t keep track (4 points)
d) you tell them you’re not a player that way (1 point)
6. If you met a person over 18 years old who is a virgin, your first thought would be:
a) how can anyone do that? (4 points)
b) good for them (1 point)
c) wish I could’ve done that (2 points)
d) that’s pathetic (3 points)
7. If you have children, what will you teach them about sex?
a) It’s natural…can’t be resisted. (4 points)
b) Sexual experiences help you grow as a person. (2 points)
c) Save sex until you are committed to someone. (1 point)
d) They’ll learn about it from friends, movies and magazines. (3 points)
8. The main thing that keeps you from acting out most of your sexual impulses is:
a) Nothing (4 points)
b) moral beliefs (1 point)
c) regret about past experiences (2 points)
d) fear of sexually transmitted diseases (3 points)
9. Do you think God has anything to say about sex that would apply to life today?
a) Absolutely not. (4 points)
b) I don’t have a clue. (3 points)
c) I don’t know, but I’m open to it. (2 points)
d) Yes, I think He does. (1 point)
10. You relate the most to:
a) Ross and Rachel from Friends (2 points)
b) Samantha Jones (Kim Catrall) from Sex and the City and Charlie Harper (Charlie Sheen) from Two and-a-half Men (4 points)
c) Jon and Kate Gosselin from Jon and Kate plus Eight (3 points)
d) U2 lead-singer Bono and his wife Ali Hewson (1 point)
