Sexual Philosophy Quiz >Your Score
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Here’s what your score means…
If you scored (0-9 points) your Sexual/Relationship Philosophy is UNKNOWN
You didn’t give enough information to be able to determine your sexual / relationship philosophy. You may have missed one of the questions.
If you scored (10-17 points) your Sexual/Relationship Philosophy is RESPECT EACH OTHER
You are confident in yourself, self-controlled and able to live by your moral standards even when your sex drive tells you otherwise. You are not sexually dead… just controlled. You respect yourself first. Your self-worth is found in your character, accomplishments, person and moral beliefs.
You don’t rely on the current cultural pressures to determine your views on sexuality and relationships. Your sexual philosophy is based on a foundation of intimacy, trust and mutual respect. You watch other people’s relationships and make strong decisions based on what you see. You learn from both the good and poor examples you’ve seen in your life. This may make it easier for you to look down on others who have different views than yours. Are you trying to understand where they’re coming from?
You are a good candidate for a long-lasting, healthy relationship – if you’re not already in one.
If you scored (18-25 points) your Sexual/Relationship Philosophy is LIVE AND LEARN
You are growing in your understanding of what is really important in relationships. You’ve made mistakes, but you are taking life lessons from them and trying not to repeat.
You want to do well in your relationships. You’re not afraid to admit where you’ve gone wrong but only in the context of learning and growing. Are you willing to take action on what you’ve already learned? Will your actions move you toward relationships are that are driven by mutual respect instead of a primarily physical basis?
You are on the right track. You’re on your way to developing a strong relationship philosophy that will guide your sexual and relationship decisions in the right direction. Information will help you as you travel this path to healthy relationships, but can only take you so far. Is there someone you can trust to help you live out what you’ve learned?
If you scored (26-33 points) your Sexual/Relationship Philosophy is NO ONE’S PERFECT
Your relationship / sexual decisions aren’t based on any moral or religious teaching – they are more spur of the moment than that. You have some regret about how you’ve acted in relationships. You recognize your actions have not always been the best for you or for others.
Have you used sex to cover up hurts and make you feel important? Is it like a drink for you… it takes the edge off? Sex doesn’t always make you happy, but it makes you feel less unhappy. At times do you feel caught in a vicious circle of needing and getting and needing all over again?
You’re not sure where to go for help in this area … the first step in talking about this will be the hardest for you – trusting someone else to understand and help you develop an strong philosophy for healthy, long-lasting relationships.
You need to find someone outside of your current circle of friends: a counselor, teacher, internet friend… Will you find the courage to talk with someone about this? When you do,you’ll be well on your way to finding healthier relationships.
If you scored (34-40 points) your Sexual/Relationship Philosophy is LIVE PASSIONATELY
You live by your passions and your hormones. You haven’t thought much about how your sexual life today will affect the other dimensions of your life in the years ahead. You live in the moment.
Your romantic / sexual relationships are short-term and centered on the physical attraction. You are most comfortable hanging around with others who have the same sexual spontaneity. You feel better about yourself when people are sexually attracted to you.
Think of a person who isn’t with you all the time but knows you well – a roommate, high-school friend, cousin… Do you have the courage to ask them for an honest analysis of your life? Will their words be enough for you to equate your self-worth with more than your sex life?
Find the answer to that question and you’ve taken a huge step toward healthier relationships – if you want to take a step in that direction, that is.
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