Comments on: What is true love?

By: Davis

Davis — Sun, 03 Mar 2013 01:10:53 +0000

Good article!!! I really liked it and that you incorporated God into it.

By: Claire Colvin

Tue, 26 Feb 2013 21:59:10 +0000

Hi Alice, You don’t need to worry about a whole life with this guy yet, the only question you need to think about is, “Do you want to go out on a date with him and get to know him a bit better?” Dating is an exploration of whether or not a relationship could become something more. Don’t rush it. Just take it one step a a time. I would ask you this – do you have feelings for him or are you trying to having feelings for him because you found out that he likes you?

There’s no way to know ahead of time what will turn into love and what won’t. Generally speaking the butterflies are there right at the beginning, but not always. Sometimes you have to get to know a person first and then you become more attracted to them. You’ve got lots of time. For now he has not asked you out (and you’ve said that you’re not available anyway until you’re 16) so just focus on being friends and enjoying the friendship and all the other stuff will come in time.

By: Alice

Alice — Mon, 25 Feb 2013 23:46:12 +0000

I met this guy at a church camp about a year ago now and found out a few months back that he has feelings for me, the church rules are not to date before i am 16 so i’m still going to wait another year at the least but my point is that i have never had this kind of relationship before, always the lust thingy and now with this guy i don’t have the butterflies in my stomach but i do long to talk with him everyday even though he’s a 12 hour drive away and i suppose that i could imagine a life with him. My question is whether it will develop into true love or whether i am forcing myself into a relationship that could hurt this guy and our friendship. any replies would be appreciated

By: Sharon

Tue, 29 Jan 2013 03:27:03 +0000

dear j prayer–father God i do pray for j for a man to love her and for a Godly mna to come into her life to love her for who she is and to spend their life together i pray for a miracle for her this year even i pray for her hearts desire to be fulfilled i pray all of this in JESUS name amen i am praying for you

By: J

Thu, 24 Jan 2013 19:47:36 +0000

By reading this article I have realized that I have never really been in love. Infatuation & lust yes but not true love. I would love to get married one day to a wonderful godly man but I fear what would I have to offer? I love God & everyday am trying to love him the way he deserves which is with my whole heart. I really desire to experience love from a man not lust but I feel like I only know how to lust & please a man the way the world says you should. I don’t want to make any man an idol in my heart but at the same time I would want to be loved in this life. I know God loves me but romantic love feels more tangible right now. Please pray for me, I have been feeling this way for a few years now. I want to be fully satisfied in Jesus.

By: ankit

ankit — Tue, 22 Jan 2013 17:41:11 +0000

Ankit and roopika is husband and wife.

By: ram

ram — Tue, 25 Dec 2012 00:46:59 +0000

Hi Ramzi, whatever you said I just can smile on it, please do not mind but friend you can not this is love or true love, it is simply attraction, true love is too far thing, or suppose u can tell this is ur love but think how can you a person who even don’t know you, it is problem of you, love is never 1 sided, true love always is a combination of both sides, Please it may be just ur passion or fashion to like him, and maybe you ‘ll realise it if you meet ur really true love ever, thanks,

By: Jamie

Mon, 24 Dec 2012 22:57:56 +0000

Hi Ramzii, I can tell that you have such strong feelings of attraction to this celebrity but I don’t think you can call them love. You may know a lot about that person but you know nothing about him from interacting with him. All you have is information from a distance. That certainly could develop into love if there were an opportunity for the two of you to spend time together and discover the nuances of each other’s personality, but at this point it is still just an attraction.

I think it is important to point out the difference because to call what you have “true love” diminishes the beauty of what true love is and can cloud your judgement. There will come a day when you will discover for yourself the difference between what you feel for this guy and what true love is all about and when that day comes you will be so glad that you did not confuse the two.

Let me caution you about becoming too obsessed with this young man. I would guess that you will not have many natural opportunities to build a friendship with him and pouring all passion into him will leave you disappointed. That can be a heart-breaking futility that will take you away from other positive relationships.

By: Ramzii

Ramzii — Mon, 24 Dec 2012 18:29:57 +0000

Well, i like this celebrity and have loved him for the past 3 years and i still do..And i am sooo in love with him its unbelievable, i never felt like this before and he is also my first love.I know that many people are going to be like “its a celeb” but for me he is my world,my life…not a day or even a minute goes by that i never think about him.i dont consider him as a celebrity and i reaaly love.I just love him ,the way he talks, walks ,his personality his voice every single thing.He also has a girlfriend(who is a celeb as well),yes i do feel jealousy. and i even cry .i pray to my god hoping that we will meet one day the he will fall in love with me and soo on.But then , i fell i’m just being stupid and acing like a girl in a fairytale,but i seriously doo love him,exactly the same way a wife would love her husband…at times i don’t know whether this is love or this just happens in every little kind of relationship, but i do feel its love because what kind of love leads to obsession and jealousy. i tell my friends as well and they think i’m crazy about him but they also say that these stupid dreams of meeting him and suddenly he will fall in love with is totally stupid and nonsense…even i know that but i dont know WHY?? i cnat forget him.i try to hate him somehow but still no effect.i also know there are billions of girls out there who die to meet him as well, i just feel that there is no one but hims.i actually reaaly love him.More than those girls out there as well.i am a teen but this is not puppy teen love kinda thingy if you know what i mean?

if there is someone who has kindly read this,please tell me if is this true love?
thankyou xx

By: Ram

Ram — Fri, 14 Dec 2012 00:53:28 +0000

arbara Alpert , yes God is Love and Same way love is God, so u can’t say God is only true love, noooooo Human loves god is Human’s nature, but we love another person as Desire, we know God is Greate , we want thanks god, but God never said love me first then love ur beloved, Nooo Loyalty is God, truth is God, God is Not a person its a supernatural power, its Truth its Faithful, in all cases, if we are Trustworthy, if we are Loyal with everything, means our love is pure for God,