“Where are you? I never get to see you.” These words can often be heard from someone you love whose love language may be quality time. Spending time with those we love is so important, yet for those who this is their love language, it means feeling loved. This is not only important, but absolutely essential for their emotional wellness and feeling loved.
Three important things to remember about quality time are:
1) One of you wants to do it.
2) The other is willing.
3) Both of you know the reason for doing it – to express love by being together.
Quality time together ends with the feeling, “he/she cares about me, he/she is willing to do something with me that I enjoy; and he/she did it with a positive attitude. That is love.” Quality time focuses on togetherness, focused attention, and quality conversations.