Understanding Beauty

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Just as we are attracted to beauty, we are also affected by our perceptions of beauty. Magazines, advertising, the different environments you may find yourself in through the week — it doesn’t matter where you go, issues of ‘beauty’ and ‘image’ follow. It colors how you perceive and react to others, and it deeply affects how you identify yourself. Our approach is key in defining beauty. To feel beautiful is to to feel attractive based on attributes that we possess as individuals. Understanding beauty is to not shrink back from life, but to thankfully recognize and embrace the gifts one has been given and use them to empower and better others. Fathers have the opportunity to reflect a healthy perception of beauty into the lives of their sons and daughters. As you walk through this study, allow yourself the time to reflect on how your own father invested (or didn’t invest) in a meaningful definition of beauty within your own life. But remember, dad’s are human too, and many people have not experienced this sort of meaningful relationship . As a result, our perception of beauty, and how we are made beautiful, has the potential to become skewed.

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1. How does culture affect how we value beauty?
2. How do you define beauty in your own life? What does it mean to be beautiful?
3. Apply this quote to yourself: “Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and famous? Actually, who are you not to be?...” What is your reaction to a statement such as this? More thoughts...
Why do you think you reacted in the way that you did?
4. Do you respond better to someone who woos your heart to dream bigger, or someone who demands it? What was your father like in this area?
5. It is a gift to have people in our lives who embrace us and bring out the gifts that we each have. It is a gift to have someone ‘woo’ that out of our souls. Over the span of your life, who has been pivotal in ‘wooing’ who you are? More thoughts...
Think of those individuals in your life who, if he or she asked for something, you would be excited to do even more than you were asked)
6. “…Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and famous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God.” What does it mean for you to be thought of as brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and/or famous? What does it mean to be a child of God? More thoughts...
Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God [John 1:12]. What does this verse say to you about being a child of God?
7. 1 John 3:1 says How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The temptation is to view God as a demanding father. However, in this verse it shows God as a father who loves His children and who wants them to grow into that love. How does this affect your understanding of who God is? And who you are? More thoughts...
The wonderful aspect of this verse is that it says that God lavished His love on us. As a human father, there are moments in my day where I’m more affectionate, and there are moments when it seems that I’m too busy. But God didn’t portion out His love, or ration out His love. He lavished His love on all of us. What a great thought!
8. Are there additional thoughts or unanswered questions that you have as a result of this study?
9. Please pray for me in these areas: More thoughts...
One of the areas that you might consider prayer for is this: that you would be blessed with a least one individual who could walk through this study with you. Often we have thoughts that we share with ourselves - it’s always a blessing to have another set of eyes and ears walking alongside this process with us.
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