Learn more about how to live in harmony with others with Dr. Muriel’s Recipe for Peace.

“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called the sons of God.” (Matthew 5:9)

I grew up in a musical family.  My mother played the piano and mandolin.  Dad played the violin and drums. My brother played the trumpet.  And I played the piano, organ, clarinet, and saxophone. For some reason, they wouldn’t let me carry a piano in the high school band.

As a pianist I have often helped others to get their instruments tuned up to the piano.  With stringed instruments, every string must be tuned for the music to sound right. My father tuned pianos, and they have many more strings than hand-held instruments!  If several keys are flat compared to the rest, there goes the harmony.

If several strings can cause disharmony in an instrument, just think what a few disgruntled Christians can do to a church. Well, think about it.  Perhaps you can remember a church split of some kind that separated and scattered the people, and all because a few persons spread disharmony.

Do we listen?  Do we join the discord? How can we save the harmony in our church?

• When we first perceive the clink of a discordant note, we can get right with the Lord if necessary. Check Romans 12:1-2 and Psalm 51.  Walking close to the Lord enables us to hear His guiding voice of wisdom. He fills our hearts with love and concern for our fellow Christians–all of them. He restrains us from adding to the discordance.
• Abstain from gossip, criticism, or caustic debate.  As we walk with Jesus, we will know in our hearts just how we may contribute to harmony and not to the cacophony.
• Pray, pray, pray!  Often when a piano gets out of tune, moisture may be involved.  Well, when a church gets out of tune, the devil is probably involved.  Peter counsels the church, “Be self-controlled and alert.  Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.

“Resist him, standing firm in the faith.” (1 Peter 5:8-9) The devil loves to tear up churches!

Ephesians 4:26 tells us, “In your anger do not sin; do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.”  We may get involved in church disharmony when we get up our “righteous indignation”.  (Well, hey, that sounds a little more “Christian” than anger, doesn’t it?)

Our Lord knows the right way to handle every situation with a minimum of ill feelings.  As we pray, God will show us His way to deal with anything–and He will help in the resolution.

God’s Word twice gives the following recipe for harmony:  “Whoever would love life and see good days must keep his tongue from evil and his lips from deceitful speech.  He must turn from evil and do good; he must seek peace and pursue it.” (1 Pet. 3:10-12; Ps. 34:12-16)  And Jesus said, “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called the sons of God.” (Matt. 5:9)

Lord, Help me to be a peacemaker in my circle of influence. Amen.

Questions: Are you part of the disharmony in your church? What steps can you take to become a peacemaker instead of causing disharmony?

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In Lorne Cunningham’s book, “The Book That Transforms Nations,” he recounts the story of how God answered his question, “Where do we start?” Heavy on his heart was the need to see change in the nations and to see morality and goodness restored. Early one morning the Lord spoke to him: “There are seven areas of society that are like classrooms to disciple nations.” He then received and wrote down family, religion, education, arts/entertainment/sports, media,business/science/technology, and government. The very next day he met up with Campus Crusade for Christ founder Bill Bright, who had previously received the very same list from the Lord. Within a few weeks Mr. Cunningham once again heard this list, and this time it came from Dr. Francis Schaeffer, founder of L’Abri Fellowship.

The message was clear and confirmed. God was providing a strategy through which the body of Christ could work to bring change to our nations, by reaching people through the domains of our cities. This is the overriding strategy of Power To Change, and the framework Breakthrough Prayer uses to help you as prayer partners to reach your city. As you identify the domain that reflects your heart and the people you interact with on a daily basis, not only will your common ground make it meaningful and easy to pray for those in your circle of influence, but as you pray for them, God will give you opportunities to share your faith with them in personal and meaningful ways. As each of us becomes engaged in this way in our own communities, the gospel becomes available to people in every domain of the city.  

 So here’s what I want you to do – God helping you; Take your everyday ordinary life, your sleeping, eating, going to work and walking around life, and place it before God as an offering. Romans 12:2 (The Message)

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“Love the Lord your God with ALL your heart and with ALL your soul and with ALL your strength”  (Deuteronomy 6:5).

“She only married him for his money.”

“I hope your wife can cook and likes to clean.”

“I couldn’t marry him because he didn’t wear the right clothes.”

We hear these sentiments all the time; we think these sentiments all the time.  What has happened to valuing someone for who they are instead of what we can get from them?

I think that we walk a fine line in our relationship with our Master.  It seems as though many people pray because they want something from God. However, we are missing the relationship part.  We need to love God because of who he is.  We need to love God because he is our ALMIGHTY Savior, he is our Redeemer and Friend.  Not because we want something and we think the way to achieve that is through God.

Why do you pray, read your Bible, go to church?  What is your motivation? Like I said, it is a fine line.  Be careful that you are on the relationship side, not on the other side.

My kids love on me SOOO much when they want something.  They draw me pictures, they snuggle up to me, they say and do sweet things.  As soon as I grant them whatever it is they want, they all of sudden forget my name!  Do you do this with God?  The interesting thing is, what He asks of us is our love.  What I ask of my children is their love.  I know that if they love me then they will do the other things that I ask of them to do.  Love is the best motivator.

Questions: Are you in love with God? What motivates you read your Bible or go to church?

“Therefore He is able to save completely those who come to God through Him because He always lives to intercede for them” (Hebrews 7:25).

A single mom navigating the court system; an immigrant trying to get medical attention; an elderly person dealing with banks or insurance claims after the death of a spouse; a woman without mechanical knowledge needing to get her car fixed; a dad trying to reconnect with his estranged teenage daughter; who hasn’t felt vulnerable, unable to defend themselves and in need of an advocate?

Jesus is our advocate.

He is more than just a lawyer who pleads our case, who understands the system and can stand up for us when we who are weak.

Jesus is our substitute.

Because He experienced every temptation that we face, yet did not sin, He is not only able to sympathize with our weaknesses but save us from our sins. (Hebrews 4:15) Jesus, the Son of God, stands before the throne of God on our behalf and asks for mercy.

He doesn’t say, “Cut her some slack, you know she’s just a weak human” or “Give him one more chance, I think he’s learned his lesson.” No, He says, “Let me bear the  of their sins.”

Because Jesus is alive – and lives forever – He always intercedes for us. He’s never too busy or off on a holiday. We don’t have to make an appointment or wait in line. He is able to save us completely because He always lives to intercede for us. He has made us acceptable before God.

“Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need” (Hebrews 4:16).

Father God, thank you that through Jesus, I can come to You in confidence. I ask for Your mercy and I wait expectantly for Your grace.

Questions: What does having Jesus as your intercessor mean to you? What will you ask for grace for, knowing that you can have confidence in Jesus?

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Can we pray for you today?

“I am the true vine, and my Father is the vine-dresser. Every branch in me that does not bear fruit he takes away, and every branch that does bear fruit he prunes, that it may bear more fruit” (John 15:1-2).

Have you heard that old saying, “the Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away”? I have heard it whispered in hugs when tragedy hits. Not extremely consoling. Neither is this verse—at first. It says that any part of my life that God considers to be dead, He takes away. Then, even if it isn’t, He may still clip it away. Where is the giveth part? What if the part of me that isn’t producing Godly results is something I actually love to do? It may be a hobby, a little pleasure, or even an attitude or habit that has amused me.

Isn’t it interesting that the word “amused” also spells “am used”? Just because it is something I am used to doing or enjoying, doesn’t make it good. That doesn’t mean it will bear fruit, i.e. point to God working in my life. It is an area in my life that the Spirit will not touch because it doesn’t serve God. It isn’t being spiritually fed.

If we are to be grafted into Christ so we can be His hands and feet on this earth, then the rest of the body should follow suit. That includes our minds, our actions, our pleasures. If it isn’t serving a purpose unto Heaven, it will be cut off from the life-giving Spirit within us. God may take it away. He may rip it from our hands, and like a child who grabbed a candy bar, we wail that He is not being fair.

There may be another part of our lives that is a bit more of a gray area. Perhaps it won’t be as noticeable at first. But we will slowly lose interest in that task, pleasure, or hobby. Or we will reach a turning point which, as Christians, makes us realize that we are not serving God as well as we should. Something has to change. It may be an attitude, a habit, or even a ministry that has become a duty thing instead of a joy. Whatever it is, it is stifling our growth in Him.

Here come the pruning shears. Whack. So we will bear more fruit, God doesn’t want that particular thing sapping our time and energy. The Master Vine-dresser knows what is good for the vine, and what has potential to do good. And, if we stop to think about it, maybe this thing that is stifling our growth can be turned around to be used for God’s purpose. Perhaps it doesn’t need to whacked away, just trimmed a bit so it becomes more life giving and fulfilling.

What things? Things like habits or pastimes that amuse us like knitting all the time, wherever you go. Or watching DVD movies. Or reading. Playing video games. What if you knitted baby booties for the preemies in the neonatal ward, or for unwed mothers who choose not to abort? What if you had a family movie night in your home and invited in the neighbors to watch wholesome films? What if you read to underprivileged children, or help an adult learn to read? What if you helped organize a summer program where kids could play video games that are wholesome, get them up and moving and interacting with each other?

Where is the giveth part? It comes with the warm glow inside us when we know God has used us, and that humbling reality that He loves us enough to want to do so—that we matter to Him. It is when He makes us feel worthwhile enough to be used to His Glory.

Questions: What area of your life might need a bit of reshaping in order to be more useful to God? Will you let Him prune it?

Can we pray for you today?

“For the coming of the Son of Man will be just like the days of Noah. For as in those days before the flood they were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, until the day that Noah entered the ark, and they did not understand until the flood came and took them all away; so will the coming of the Son of Man be” (Matthew 24:37-39) .

We seem to have experienced more natural disasters in the past two years than ever before. Thousands have died in hurricanes, typhoons, fires and earthquakes.

Recently we watched with horror on live television and then played over and over the disaster in Japan. First it was an earthquake, then a tsunami and then a nuclear catastrophe. The power moved the coastline of Japan eight feet and shifted the position of the earth’s axis about 6.5 inches, causing the earth to rotate slightly faster, shortening the day by 1.8 microseconds. As I listened to the reports, I realized that the news without knowing it was describing that which is to come as prophesied by John the Revelator while exiled on the Isle of Patmos. I thought of Luke 21:28 which says, “When these things begin to take place, stand up and lift your heads, because redemption is drawing near.” The world today remains mostly oblivious to all that is happening, not just with natural disasters, but economically and socially. As in the days of Noah, people ignored all the warnings and they did not understand even until the flood came and took them all away. God is trying to get our attention. Sometimes God speaks to our heart, emotion or intellect through his Word, our prayer life, dreams and visions, reflection or meditation. God also speaks to us through the people in our lives.

God also uses circumstances good and bad to get our attention and call us to his agenda. Anything that happens to us in life can work for good if we engage our circumstances as opportunities to be conformed to Christ’s image (Romans 8:28-29) So we are admonished to look up and look around at what is happening in the world, listen to others and most importantly, listen to God. Look at the world and see the signs as we listen to what God is trying to tell to his people. Think of the flood, of the earthquake and other ways God uses his awesome power to get attention. Recent events have been cataclysmic, but for those who have read Revelation, we haven’t seen anything like it yet. Redemption is drawing nigh.

Questions: How is God trying to get your attention? Why is he trying to get your attention?

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“And the Lord said to Moses, ‘Why do you cry to Me? Tell the children of Israel to go forward”‘ (Exodus 14:15, NKJV).

Sometimes we pray and pray about something but nothing seems to change. Maybe God is saying the same thing to us as he said to Moses, “Why do you cry out to me? Do something!” There are times in which we can be like little children sitting on the floor crying and just waiting for someone to pick us up and fix everything. The truth is that God picked us up at the point of our salvation, and He fixed everything at the cross. From there it is our responsibility to take hold of what has been accomplished for us, apply it to our lives and go forward.

Too often we think that God should be moved by our “need,” but God is not moved by need, He is moved by faith. Faith requires action. It starts by knowing what God’s promise is for you in your specific area of need. Get into the word and find the scriptures that speak the truth about the matter and start to saturate your mind and spirit with that truth. This is what it means to have our “minds renewed” (Romans 12/2).

By the power of the Holy Spirit, the word of God, and a decision on our part to go forward and take hold of the salvation promises that God has for us, things will start to change. Jesus said that it was finished at the cross, now it is for us to take up the cross and follow Him into victory!

“Then He touched their eyes, saying “according to your faith let it be done to you” (Matthew 9:29, NJKV).

“For as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead also” (James 2:26, NKJV).

Questions: What does it mean to have our minds renewed? What causes God to be moved?  How would you describe faith?

Can we pray for you?

There is much to keep you feeling anxious and worried these days…… yet God calls you to thanksgiving and peace. Let the truth of His word change your anxious heart and mind.

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God… And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4: 6 & 7).

Dear God, please help me to remember that worry is a call to prayer. When anxious thoughts give way to fear in my heart may I remember to let my faith take the upper hand and cover over my fear with the power of Your word.

Fill my heart and mind with the recollection of all I have to say “thank you” for.

Thank you that guarding my heart is not just my responsibility, but YOU promise to guard my heart and mind with Your amazing peace as I turn my worried thoughts into faith filled prayers that You will preside over the details of my life.

I praise and thank you in the name of Jesus, Amen.

Questions: How can we keep our minds from being anxious but rather filled with peace? What is causing you anxiety?

“Be not afraid of their faces: for I am with thee to deliver thee, saith the LORD” (Jeremiah 1:8, KJV).

David probably spent most of his early life keeping sheep. He had many experiences in the wilderness and opportunities to know God. He had seen God work on his behalf protecting him and strengthening him. In this time of aloneness he had built his relationship with God. His knowledge of God’s ability surpassed his knowledge of the ability of anyone else therefore the awesomeness of God was something in his heart and not his head.

When David arrived at the place of battle he was amazed at the ignorance of Goliath and shocked by the fear of Israel. The defiance and strength of Goliath existed because he was empowered by the fear of Israel. Had Israel feared God more than Goliath they would not have had an enemy.  “The fear of man brings a snare: but whoever puts his trust in the LORD shall be safe.” (Proverbs 29:25, KJV)

To fear God is to reverence, accept and honor who He is. It is impossible to know who God is without intimacy. ‘Goliaths’ stand in the areas where God is not exalted and known. Our words and conversations will reveal who we are better acquainted with. It is interesting to note that in the conversations between David and the men there is no mention of God except from David.

The people had been had been listening to Goliath every morning and every evening. They chose the words of Goliath above the knowledge of God.  In so doing they had created a “high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God.” (2 Corinthians 10:5). T, KJV) The result of this was they became servants of Goliath even before the start of the battle. We are told they became dismayed and greatly afraid. (v. 11) If the voice of God is not louder to us than every other voice we will begin to serve those voices. It is important we keep His word before us and hear His voice.

When David ran towards Goliath he declared that this defeat would show the whole earth there was a God in Israel. When we take down the Goliaths everyone will know God is with us.

“the people that do know their God shall be strong, and do exploits” (Dan 11:32, KJV).

Questions: Are you facing a Goliath in your life right now? How are you handling it? Whose voice are you listening to?