Understanding Your Relationship With Jesus Christ
How do I know that Christ is in my life?
Did you receive Christ into your life? According to His promise in Revelation 3:20, [Christ speaking] “Behold, I stand at the door and knock; if anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him.”
Knowing Jesus Christ is the most exciting relationship you can have. It is the beginning of a life of adventure with an all-loving, all-powerful God. If you have sincerely asked Christ to come into your life, you can be sure that your relationship with God is secure. As a result of Christ’s death on the cross, the only sufficient provision for a relationship with God, you have been completely forgiven and accepted by Him.There are many exciting things that are true in your relationship with Christ. Understanding these truths will help you build a firm foundation on which to grow.
My feelings about God keeps changing
1. Feelings can be unreliable
You might have expectations about how you should feel after placing your trust in Christ. While feelings are important, they are unreliable indicators of your sincerity or the trustworthiness of God’s promise. Our feelings change easily, but God’s Word and His character remain constant. This illustration shows the relationship between fact (God and His Word), faith (our trust in God and His Word) and our feelings.
> Fact – this chair is strong enough to support you.
> Faith – You believe this chair will support you, so you sit in it.
> Feeling– You may or may not feel comfortable in this chair, but it continues to support you.
The moment you received Christ by faith, as an act of your will, many things happened, including the following:
- Christ came into your life – Revelation 3:20, Colossians 1:27
- Your sins were forgiven – Colossians 1:14
- You became a child of God – John 1:12
- You received eternal life – John 5:24
- You began the great adventure for which God created you – John 10:10, 2 Corinthians 5:17, 1 Thessalonians 5:18
2. Dealing with doubts
Even though feelings are important, your relationship with Christ is based on facts, not on feelings that can change daily. Doubts, questions and varying emotions are common parts of everyone’s life, but they are very unreliable gauges of anyone’s relationship with Christ. The Christian lives by faith in the trustworthiness of God and His Word.
But what if you don’t feel like a Christian tomorrow? Place your faith in the faithfulness of God Himself and the trustworthiness of His Word. The more you learn, the more you will be able to answer any doubts with solid facts. Your feelings will begin to respond to the truth of God’s Word and not to your circumstances.
Since you have trusted in Christ’s payment for your sin, understood the basis of your relationship with God and have learned five truths about your relationship, you can be confident in your relationship with Christ.
- Take one truth each day and reflect on it. Read the accompanying verses and thank God that this is now true to you.
- Tell someone this week that you have a relationship with Christ.