Lesson 2: Experiencing God’s Love and Forgiveness

This is part 2 in a 4 part series – Lessons for Christian Living

lesson1It was a small thing-a driver cut you off, a classmate insulted you, your spouse forgot to pick you up-but suddenly you’re swearing and yelling. Or perhaps you find yourself tempted by other actions and attitudes, like gossip or bitterness, that take your focus off God.

These sorts of attitudes and actions are called “sin.” The word “sin” carries the idea of falling short of a target or missing the mark. When we do what we want instead of what God wants, we sin. When old habits and attitudes creep up, don’t get discouraged. You’re still God’s child. Sin, however, disrupts our closeness to God, our communication with Him. It keeps us from experiencing His love.

And we all sin, even as Christians. That’s why we all need God’s forgiveness each day.

1. The basis for God’s love and forgiveness

“Christ also suffered when he died for our sins once for all time. He never sinned, but he died for sinners that he might bring us safely home to God. He suffered physical death, but he was raised to life in the Spirit.” (1 Peter 3:18)

When Jesus died for us, He made it possible for us to have a relationship with God. His death also allows us to claim God’s forgiveness daily.

“You were dead because of your sins and because your sinful nature was not yet cut away. Then God made you alive with Christ. He forgave all our sins. He cancelled the record that contained the charges against us. He took it and destroyed it by nailing it to Christ’s cross.” (Colossians 2:13-14)

When this passage was written, a “record” was an itemized list of crimes for which a prisoner had been convicted. It was nailed to the prison door. Once the sentence was served or the debt paid, the prisoner could use the cancelled record as proof he could never be tried for those crimes again.

Similarly, when we trust in Jesus’ payment for our sins, we can never be tried for them again. We have a full pardon from God.

“He has not punished us for all our sins, nor does he deal with us as we deserve. For his unfailing love toward those who fear him is as great as the height of the heavens above the earth. He has removed our rebellious acts as far away from us as the east is from the west.” (Psalm 103:10-12)

2. Experiencing God’s love and forgiveness daily

Although you are totally forgiven, you still need to deal with your sins day-to-day to keep a close relationship with God. You need to confess your sin.

Confession-agreeing with God about sin

“But if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us and to cleanse us from every wrong.” (1 John 1:9)

When God brings to mind some sin in your life, confess it. Confession means

  • Agreeing with God that you have sinned
  • Thanking God for having already forgiven you
  • Trusting God to change your wrong attitudes and actions

Instead of feeling guilty, turn away from your sin and back to God. This repentance allows you to experience God’s love and forgiveness. It restores you to a close relationship with Him.

Putting it into practice

Right now, or tonight before you go to bed:

  • Ask God to reveal any sin in your life.
  • List these sins on a piece of paper. Be completely honest: this is just between you and God.
  • After completing your list, write over it the promise of 1 John 1:9.
  • Thank God for providing forgiveness through Jesus’ death on the cross.
  • Tear up the list and throw it away.

Experiencing the results

“Finally, I confessed my sins to you and stopped trying to hide them. I said to myself, ‘I will confess my rebellion to the Lord.’ And you forgave me! All my guilt is gone.” (Psalm 32:5)

What if you still feel guilty after you have confessed your sins? Count on God’s Word, the Bible-it says you’re forgiven. Don’t rely on your feelings. If you don’t confess sin, however, there’s a good reason for feeling guilty.

Suggestions for further growth

Try to spend 15 minutes or so each day, alone, getting to know God better through Bible reading and prayer. Here are some suggestions:

  1. If you don’t already have a Bible, see if you can get one (see Lesson 1). Meanwhile, start reading the Gospel of John.
  2. Read Jesus’ story of the young runaway who wasted his inheritance (Luke 15:11-32). What does this story illustrate about our relationship with God?
  3. Read Galatians 5:16-23. Notice how allowing God to work in your life makes a difference. As you become aware of an area of your life that displeases God, deal with it according to 1 John 1:9. You will then enjoy a renewed closeness with Him.


By continually confessing your sins to God and trusting in His forgiveness, you can experience His love and grow closer to Him daily.

Next: Lesson 3 – Power for living a dynamic Christian life

7 Responses to “Lesson 2: Experiencing God’s Love and Forgiveness”

  • Justine says:

    I thank you for this message. However I know this applies to all of us as Christians, however its almost like I have come to a point in my personal walk that I feel for me this is a way to hide under grace now I know that we never arrive. I just get so frustrated with myself, because God has blessed me in sooo many ways and giftings and I still struggle with smoking. I try so hard I pray,fast and pick it back up. Now I know there is no condemnation in Christ Jesus! I just struggle because I hear God in my spirit correcting me and I do it, now I am quenching the spirit. I also know that God is waiting to take me to a new level in ministry once I conquer this. I have heard him speak this to me several times. Now my relationship is hindered and a bit foggy. I need to overcome this and I need him in this. I just read Hosea again and I remember where he has brought me from and I want to return and not just lightly or half way because it is so much bigger than me. My life needs to be his because he wants to use it for more than my own desires and affections, but as his vessel. I do not want to be in the way or have to answer one day on the fact that I was to busy feeding my own flesh than to care about some poor lost person that needed him just as much if not more than when he found me. Who am I? I believe and know that his blood was not spilt in vein but when does it become a flat out slap in the face to the same Heavenly Father that endured all that on calvary. I am so sorry Lord. If repentance means toturn away from than I am stuck in the repen.. part of the word.



  • saradhi A says:

    i did sin against God so many times
    now i am expecting firgivenes frin God
    is God for give me???

  • saradhi A says:

    how many times God forgives

  • Aldo says:

    Saradhi, the requirement for receiving the forgiveness of God is having a relationship with Him as your heavenly Father. That is gained through accepting and receiving His “only begotten” son Jesus Christ as your Savior and your Lord.

    God the Father “…so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.” “He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.” That is in gospel of John, chapter 3, verses 16 and 18 in the Holy Bible.

    Once you are in relationship with the Father through His Son Jesus, all you need to do Saradhi to receive forgiveness is “…confess (y)our sins, (and) He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness- 1 John 1:9.

    God does not keep track of our sins Sadradhi; in fact the Bible tells us that He throws them into a sea of forgetfulness. There is only one sin that God does not forgive, and that is the sin of rejecting His Son Jesus Christ.

    You can accept and receive Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior right now Sadradhi. Remember, God knows your heart and is not as concerned with your words as He is with your attitude. The following is a suggested prayer:

    “Dear God, I admit I am a sinner and need Your forgiveness; I believe that Jesus Christ, Your Son, died in my place, paying the penalty for my sins. I am willing right now to turn from my sin and accept Him as my personal Savior and Lord. I commit myself to You, and ask You to send the Holy Spirit into my life, to fill me and take control, and to help me become the kind of person You want me to be. Thank You Father for loving me, forgiving my sins, and for giving me everlasting life, in Jesus name, Amen.”

    I pray that you make the right decision Sadradhi for your eternal destiny depends on it.

  • Susan says:


    God’s nature is love. No matter if we did some sin and if you realize it, then immediately ask Jesus to forgive it. Confess it immediately dn then be careful not to do the same sin. Of course, we need God’s strength to not to do it again.

  • Susan says:


    I am sorry to hear this. I was also under one sin(few years back). Like you, I was unable to come out from it, though I was praying and asking God to help but still I was kept on falling into that. Then, one day, I said, “Lord, You hates sin and I don’t want to do this, I need Your help, etc..I started asking God for His help” I started praying, Lord, when I think about this sin, I want that hatred feeling to come” And I started slowly overcoming to that and finally, completely out from it. So, Justine, it may not happen within a day but slowy you can. When, you get that feeling to smoke, why not divert your attention? May be go from that place or put something into your mouth, etc…etc…?

    I’ll be praying for you Justine. Justine, I would encourage you to log onto, knowingjesuspersonally.com

  • Marcus says:

    Falling back to sin comes once in a while. If you’re struggling against temptation, and give in, don’t worry. We all experience that. But struggling against temptation takes progression. Like if you said “I won’t do it again”, you’re not going to completely turn away from such intense temptation. But it takes progress. And everytime you fall, feel guilty instead of enjoying the mistake you’re doing. Writing a list on a paper is a great help. After writing, pray for them. After praying, crumple the list and throw it away, or for a better feeling, burn it on fire. It will remove away your stress, because by burning, you’re thinking that your stress, sins & guilt are being eliminated for good and eternity and knowing that you won’t be haunted by the regretting guilt in your soul.

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