Singles

Do You Trust Him?

It's easy to fall in love with a man you don't trust, but it's hard to live with him. Real, lasting relationships are built on trust. Trust is foundational because it creates a safe environment for intimacy to grow. If your relationship is going to work you need to be able to trust your partner with your past, your present and your future. Trust...

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The Laundry Date
The Laundry Date

How would you get a girl's (or guy's) attention? Flirting is something that is so common but is still so awkward for many people. Say you see someone across the laundry room, how could you approach them without feeling nervous or being intimidating? This guy has an unusual approach. If you are on the dating scene, do you find it difficult to approach...

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MU: How’s your Dating Game?
MU: How's your Dating Game?

Dating is a lot more complicated than it was a few decades ago. In my great-grandparents generation, things were simple: You married the person who lived nearby in your small town and stayed together for life. But now big city life and online dating has expanded our options considerably, and divorce and second relationships are much more common....

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Being Single: A Different Kind of Freedom
Being Single: A Different Kind of Freedom

There are more than enough top 10 lists out there pointing out the benefits of being single. The pros of why being without a mate produces all these side effects that beg to be recognized. You know the ones I’m talking about. Sometimes they come off sympathetic, some patronizing, some like propaganda, and often times far from genuine. It wasn’t...

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Handling the Holidays
Handling the Holidays

How do you feel about the holidays? Are they difficult ones for you as a single? Or do you look forward to them with excited anticipation? Whichever emotion is attached to the holidays for you, or something on the spectrum in between, I'd like to offer an encouragement to focus on something and someone beyond those feelings. Jeremiah, one of...

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Be Loved For Who You Really Are
Be Loved For Who You Really Are

Everybody wants to be loved for who they really are - beneath the masks they wear, the impressions they try to make and the mind games they play. But how do we go about doing that? Two of America's most respected, pioneering and sought after authorities on relationship dynamics, Jim Sniechowski and Judith Sherven, challenge our understanding of love...

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Singleness
Singleness

Believe me, I know about being single. At first, my friends and I would moan the dilemmas of being single, all the while thinking that it would only be for a while. Then as I've gotten older, single women have approached me and asked in disbelief, "How could you have survived being single all these years?" It's hard to tell when a person officially...

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First date dilemmas. Mind your manners!
First date dilemmas. Mind your manners!

Would your recent dating life be more likely rated as a "fizzle" than a "sizzle"? Do you seem to continually attract the type of women - you are not attracted to? Does it seem that when you do meet the type of woman you would like to spend more time with they don't seem to stick around long enough to meet the real you? It could be your deodorant,...

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