How do I know if Christ is in my life?

Did you receive Christ into your life? According to his promise in Revelation 3:20, where is he?

"Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me.”

Knowing Jesus Christ is the most exciting relationship you can have. It is the beginning of a life of adventure with an all-loving, all-powerful God. If you have asked Christ to come into your life, you can be sure that your relationship with God is secure. As a result of Christ’s death on the cross, the only sufficient provision for a relationship with God, you have been completely forgiven and accepted by him. There are many exciting things that are true in your relationship with Christ. Understanding these truths will help you build a firm foundation on which to grow.

My feelings about God keep changing

1. Feelings can be unreliable

You might have expectations about how you should feel after placing your trust in Christ. While feelings are important, they are unreliable indicators of your sincerity or of the trustworthiness of God’s promise. Our feelings change easily, but God’s Word and his character remain constant. This illustration shows the relationship between fact (God and His Word), faith (our trust in God and His Word) and our feelings.

The moment you received Christ by faith as an act of your will, many things happened, including the following:

  1. Christ came into your life—Revelation 3:20Colossians 1:27
  2. Your sins were forgiven—Colossians 1:14
  3. You became a child of God—John 1:12
  4. You received eternal life—John 5:24
  5. You began the great adventure for which God created you—John 10:10, 2 Corinthians 5:171 Thessalonians 5:18

2. Dealing with doubts

Even though feelings are important, your relationship with Christ is based on facts, not on feelings that can change daily. Doubts, questions, and varying emotions are common to everyone, but they are very unreliable gauges of anyone’s relationship with Christ. The Christian is called to live by faith in the trustworthiness of God and his Word.

But what if you don’t feel like a Christian tomorrow? Place your faith in the faithfulness of God himself and the trustworthiness of his Word. The more you learn, the more you will be able to answer any doubts with solid facts. Your feelings will begin to respond to the truth of God’s Word and not to your circumstances.

Since you have trusted in Christ’s payment for your sin, understood the basis of your relationship with God, and learned five truths about your relationship, you can be confident in your relationship with Christ.

You can respond to the questions below to journey with a mentor and receive prayer. You’ll be able to talk through what you have learned.

This article, as well as this series, is an adaptation by The Life Project of Dr. Bill Bright’s material, Knowing Jesus Personally.
updated September 2019

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