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“Direct your children onto the right path, and when they are older, they will not leave it.” (Proverbs 22:6, NLT)

Billy Graham embodies a prolific life as an evangelist, speaker, and author. God has used him in powerful ways, and through him God has brought thousands of people to faith. It’s estimated that he has preached to more people around the world than any other preacher in history.

He is also a husband and a father. The privilege and responsibility of leading the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association he founded has been passed on to his son, Franklin Graham. And Billy Graham’s influence doesn’t end there. Franklin Graham’s son Will (Billy Graham’s grandson) is also involved in the organization, leading evangelistic events. The Graham family is a testament to how fervent biblical faith lived out daily can impact generations.

“Grandchildren are the crowning glory of the aged; parents are the pride of their children.” (Proverbs 17:6, NLT)

You may be thinking, “Well, that’s wonderful, but I’m sure not Billy Graham!” But don’t be discouraged! You don’t have to be in order to still have a profound influence on your children’s lives.

I was speaking last week with one of the elders at my church, and as she spoke about her family she mentioned her daughter’s name. I interjected, asking her what grade her daughter is in. It turns out that her daughter is one of the teens in the grade 11 Sunday school class I teach. This lady’s daughter is one of the leaders in the class of over a dozen students. She is one of the few willing to ask questions, suggest answers, and encourage others.

The attitude and example of her mother has no doubt influenced her daughter. Her mother is not a fiery evangelist, superb speaker, or brilliant exegete. Rather, she is a quiet example of steadfast faith.

You don’t need to be Billy Graham to make a profound difference in your child’s life. Your holy duty and privilege is to “bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord” (Ephesians 6:4) and “direct your children onto the right path, and when they are older, they will not leave it.” (Proverbs 22:6, NLT) Under your own strength that may seem impossible, so lean heavily on the Lord, for “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.” (Psalm 46:1)

Question: What difference do you hope to make in your child’s life? (Or in the lives of other children you are involved with?)

About the Author: Darren Hewer