Paula Friedrichsen

    Paula Friedrichsen is a retreat and conference and the author of, “The Man You Always Wanted is the One You Already Have” (Multnomah 2007), from which the article was adapted. Find out more about Paula's ministry by visiting her website: www.PFMinistries.com

    Articles by Paula Friedrichsen

    A Bruised Reed He Will Not Break

    If you were sexually abused as a child, you’re not alone. Read Maureen’s story. Donned in her favorite nightgown Kimberly* slips under the covers anticipating a good night’s sleep. Patting her husband’s shoulder she says, Goodnight honey… Tentatively Ron reaches out for Kimberly and nuzzles her cheek giving her a tender kiss. With a familiar […] Read More >

    Be Kind to Strangers (even the annoying ones!)

    Don’t you just hate being interrupted when you’re busy? Everyone does. But it’s the times when we’re really busy – and then interrupted – that the quality of our character is tested. And last Tuesday I failed the test! At 10:35 in the morning, I was sitting at my computer trying to write my column […] Read More >

    Inbox Infidelity

    With the advent of email, chat rooms, and other online technology, it is easier than ever for a married person to engage in a private, often intimate, relationship outside of their marriage. In the hothouse of secrecy, seduction can flourish. When Lynn met Bill in a chat room they hit it off right away. His […] Read More >

    Three Safeguards Against Adultery

    Staying strong in your marriage commitment – even through the fire! I loved my new church! It was vibrant, exciting and on the cutting edge. The pastor was a talented and charismatic speaker and singer, the church was growing and impacting the community, and I felt so blessed to be a part of it all! […] Read More >


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