Schedule Sex?

July 23, 2014

Schedule Sex? Sounds crazy! That was my first thought and it may be yours also. Consider some of the possible benefits. With busy schedules and the tiredness that results, having a point of connection scheduled could help take the stress out of the equation and allow for emotional and mental anticipation. It may remove some of the anxiety of deciding in the moment whether or not to initiate or respond.

Some couples have found scheduling sex very energizing. It allows for some creativity that requires preparation, like setting the atmosphere, choosing appealing clothing or any other number of creative touches. Sex in your schedule could also help where conflicting libidos are involved, allowing compromise on frequency of sex. This does not preclude spontaneity but it does provide a base line of sexual enjoyment in over-complicated lives!

We put our priorities into our schedules. The physical expression of love is a powerful bonding agent in any relationship. It is a priority to a healthy and growing relationship.

Action:  Talk about scheduling sex. Set a few dates. Try it for a month or two.